16 Tips To Regain Balance And Feel Good

16 Tips To Regain Balance And Feel Good

Take time for yourself.

Too much of anything can be a bad thing - it doesn’t matter if it’s too much work or too much play. So here’s a list for both the overworked and the underwhelmed: think of it as a self-care guide to a balanced life. It doesn’t matter if you need to de-stress or add some edge, this list will help you.

1. Schedule ten minutes of “me time” each day.

It doesn’t have to be the same time every day, but make sure that you take at least ten minutes for yourself each day.

2. Listen to your favorite music.

In the shower, during your morning commute, even while you’re working, if you can.

3. Light candles when you get home after work or class.

Lavender and eucalyptus candles are known to be especially good for stress relief.

4. Take a long, hot shower.

Trust me, it washes everything away.

5. Binge watch your favorite tv show on the weekend.

Grab a blanket, your go-to-snack, and hit play. Give in. You'll be so glad you did.

6. If you haven't already got a planner, GET ONE.

Keeping your life organized is only going to help you eliminate chaos. try out passion planners.

7. Exercise.

But exercise however you want to exercise, no matter what that means; whether it’s a power lifting session at the gym, a run in the park, a hike, a walk on the beach, a yoga class - do the type of exercise that makes you happy.

8. Dance it out.

There's a reason Meredith Grey and Christina Yang do it.

9. Make a "to-do" list.

That way you won't forget anything, and it'll help eliminate last-minute panic from your life.

10. Plan a trip just for you.

Not a work trip, not a family trip to Disney Land to please your kids, a trip for you. Where do you want to go? Go there. Find a way to make time. Whether it’s a weekend, a whole week, or a whole month.

11. Write a list.

Of everything that you are passionate about, and that inspires you. Make sure at least a few of those things are incorporated into your life somehow.

12. Cuddle a furry animal.

Seriously. Do it. Find one and thank me later.

13. Turn off social media, turn off the news, and actually pay attention to the world and people around you.

Be present in your own life.

14. Spend time in nature.

Life can really feel like it’s getting away from you sometimes. But going for a hike or even just a walk through the park can really help you take a step back from the chaos of daily life and clear your head. It can have a revitalizing affect.

15. Meditate.

Another great way to slow things down and clear your head, whether you do it for an hour or ten minutes.

16. Count your blessings.

Be mindful and appreciative of everything that is good in your life. Write a list of everything and everyone that you're thankful for. Anytime you're feeling down in the dumps, go over this list, and even try to think up new things to add to it. It will help lift you up when you are down.

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Everything You Will Miss If You Commit Suicide

The world needs you.

You won’t see the sunrise or have your favorite breakfast in the morning.

Instead, your family will mourn the sunrise because it means another day without you.

You will never stay up late talking to your friends or have a bonfire on a summer night.

You won’t laugh until you cry again, or dance around and be silly.

You won’t go on another adventure. You won't drive around under the moonlight and stars.

They’ll miss you. They’ll cry.

You won’t fight with your siblings only to make up minutes later and laugh about it.

You won’t get to interrogate your sister's fiancé when the time comes.

You won’t be there to wipe away your mother’s tears when she finds out that you’re gone.

You won’t be able to hug the ones that love you while they’re waiting to wake up from the nightmare that had become their reality.

You won’t be at your grandparents funeral, speaking about the good things they did in their life.

Instead, they will be at yours.

You won’t find your purpose in life, the love of your life, get married or raise a family.

You won’t celebrate another Christmas, Easter or birthday.

You won’t turn another year older.

You will never see the places you’ve always dreamed of seeing.

You will not allow yourself the opportunity to get help.

This will be the last sunset you see.

You’ll never see the sky change from a bright blue to purples, pinks, oranges and yellows meshing together over the landscape again.

If the light has left your eyes and all you see is the darkness, know that it can get better. Let yourself get better.

This is what you will miss if you leave the world today.

This is who will care about you when you are gone.

You can change lives. But I hope it’s not at the expense of yours.

We care. People care.

Don’t let today be the end.

You don’t have to live forever sad. You can be happy. It’s not wrong to ask for help.

Thank you for staying. Thank you for fighting.

Suicide is a real problem that no one wants to talk about. I’m sure you’re no different. But we need to talk about it. There is no difference between being suicidal and committing suicide. If someone tells you they want to kill themselves, do not think they won’t do it. Do not just tell them, “Oh you’ll be fine.” Because when they aren’t, you will wonder what you could have done to help. Sit with them however long you need to and tell them it will get better. Talk to them about their problems and tell them there is help. Be the help. Get them assistance. Remind them of all the things they will miss in life.

For help, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

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Body Positivity Is The Best Positivity There Is

There's nothing more beautiful than the skin you're in.


Body positivity is the best positivity there is, and loving yourself is healthy and as equally important. I strongly encourage women to be confident with who they are, and what they look like. Every woman should support other women around them as well, as we all need encouragement and reassurance of our beauty.

When I was in middle school, there was nothing more I wanted, than to feel confident in myself. It's not that I wasn't confident with how my body looked, but I frequently wanted things to look "better" or "prettier" in my eyes. I really had to take a step back as I entered high school by taking a look in the mirror, and appreciating how beautiful I really am. There are women who tend to be critical of themselves on a daily basis, and I've been there. But there's so much growth that can happen from this kind of thinking, rather than accepting and taking in the negativity and lies.

I believe that perfectionism in a person can negatively alter how one thinks about themselves. Take it from me. During my years in middle school especially, I would strive for perfection — but the kind that appeared to be unhealthy. I would feel the need to do my makeup or hair a certain way and at times it would take almost two hours, or even choosing between what seemed like 20 different outfits each morning before school because I didn't feel like I looked mature enough, although I was only in seventh or eighth grade.

At the time, I just wanted to look older because of how other girls around me were dressing. To tell you the truth, that didn't do anything good for me. I felt my self-worth go down the drain and I felt like I would never grow out of what I was internally dealing with. This was typically due to how introverted I was by keeping my thoughts to myself, and not letting many people in, in general.

We are currently in the year 2019. A year that has evolved girls into thinking if they don't look a certain way, they "aren't attractive or even noticeable." With this being said, it is crucial that women become critical viewers of social media platforms as well, as it can honestly raise some red flags.

Don't look at pictures on social media and think to yourself, "I want to look like that. I SHOULD look like that. Why can't I be as pretty as her? What is wrong with me? etc." Thinking like this will most definitely take you down an unhealthy, wrong, and destructive path. Most of the girls on Instagram who frequently post, honestly make themselves look entirely fake, and on our end, it shouldn't be believed that that is what they "really" look like.

Instead, force yourself to say a compliment out loud. I recommend that you do this, because eventually, a positive mindset, will become your natural thoughts. From experience, this strategy has turned my thinking completely around. Along with this, don't compare yourself to others. Everyone is unique in all sorts of ways. You are original, and no one can ever be an exact replica of you. Your individuality stands out in such a wonderful way because the truth is, what's even more beautiful than the skin you're in? Sculpted to perfection.

I believe that body positivity is so important because each woman deserves to feel beautiful and special every morning that they wake up and get ready for the day. As you are putting on your makeup, picking out an outfit, or putting on those heels that you might seem hesitant about; you have nothing to lose. Embrace your elegance and the beauty that has been given to you. Show it off. Walk out of the house with your head held high with the utmost confidence. Be strong and unbreakable.

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