The dating game has changed ladies and gentleman. There are so many options and it is easier than ever to get a hold of someone or meet new people. It has become very complex and comes with a lot of drama. Unfortunately, everyone deals with their own terrible situations and trials in the dating world that are somewhat unavoidable. Although I am young, I have experienced my fair share of dating or boy disasters and I am going to try and help the rest of the struggling girl world with the types of men you all should steer clear from.

It may not be easy to recognize these men at first, but it will not take long for you to figure it out. And if the man you are going after or currently with represents any of these following men, I urge you to re-evaluate your current situation.

Mr. Clingy

His name says it all. He gets upset when you don’t text back right away or if you would rather have a girls’ night out than hangout with him. He has to know what you are doing and who you are with at all times. Well let me tell you something about him, he is insecure and needs some help. He also has lack of trust and I promise you that does not make for a healthy relationship.

Mr. Player

This one can be tricky. Every girl wants to be the one that changes this man. They want to the special one and not like the others. Well, I am sorry to tell you but that is usually not the case. He may make you seem special or that he really cares about you, but once you give him what he wants, you will be just like the other broken-hearted girls. People can’t change other people. You deserve a man that treats you like you’re the best and only one for him and actually MEAN it. Chances are he’s after sex, don’t give in to him.

Mr. Non-Commitment

These are the men that may seem like they are great for you and everything is going so well. But the problem is you start to wonder if it is actually ever going to go somewhere. There is talk of a few future plans to make it seem like it may develop into a relationship but after a while you are still in the same place you were. You don’t know what to consider whatever it is that you are doing and if he’s just using you. The sad truth it, he probably is and you should get out. Don’t settle for someone who leaves you wondering if you’re wanted.

Mr. Cheater

Well the truth is, these guys can be easier to spot than you think. They are usually compulsive flirters and love attention. If they cheated on their last girlfriend with you, chances are he is doing the same thing to you. If you have to constantly wonder if he’s hooking up or texting other girls, he probably is and you should end that because you cannot have a relationship with no trust.

Mr. Unmotivated

I certainly wouldn’t require a man to have his whole life figured out right away, but they should have some sort of plan or goal. You want to be with someone that has a plan for life and dreams and it will be hard for you to continue on with your life if he’s not going anywhere with his. You will end up resenting him and your relationship.

Mr. Conceited

There is a difference between cockiness and confidence. Try not to get the two confused. You want to be with someone who cares about you and your interests. It’s nice to learn about someone but sometimes they’re so full of themselves that they don’t care or bother to learn or care about anyone else.

Mr. Excuses

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. I promise you that if a man wants to spend time with you, he will make it happen. Don’t fall for the guy who is always “too busy” or makes plans and then never follows through with them. He always has an excuse for something and everything. Find someone who makes time for you.

Mr. Low-Key

Sure it is great that you guys are together, but he doesn’t act like it in front of other people. He’s a different person when it’s just you two and you might find that cute, but honey it’s not. Find yourself a man who is proud to call you his. You deserve to be shown off.

Mr. “I love you, I love you not”

Don’t stay with someone who is constantly confused about his feelings for you. This guy will usually seem “wishy-washy”. Breaking up and making up can only be done so many times. Find someone who is confident in what he wants and in his feelings. You don’t want to be on an emotional roller coaster for the rest of your life.

Mr. Camellion

This is the type of guy that changes how he acts depending on who he's with. This is confusing because how are you supposed to like someone when THEY themselves don't even know who they are. Find someone who knows who they are and is consistent.

Now I don’t want you to think that I wrote this article to bash guys, but I have dealt with my fair share of these men. And don’t get me wrong there are so many amazing guys out there and I hope you all find them. Just be careful on your journey and remember these different types of men. Hopefully I can save a few of you from some heartbreaks. And many of you may be able to relate to this and now you know which kind to avoid.

XOXO

P.S. shoutout to “Updated All Stars” for helping with this piece ;)