We've all been there. You get a tinder match, you talk for a while, you go on one date, and all of a sudden you're wondering if you should take the plunge and date them. You don't fully know them, but why the heck not!? Before you make any decisions, consider answering these questions:
1. Do they have habits you're uncomfortable with?
This question isn't asking: do they chew too loud while they're eating. But make sure to consider if you're okay with their life choices. If they drink every other night and you don't find that okay, then seriously consider the potential issues in the future.
2. Are you physically attracted to him/ her?
In a relationship, physical attraction is important. If they have an attribute that turns you off, then why even bother?
3. Do you feel you can be open and honest with them?
If you're going to jump into a relationship without an established friendship, then you have to consider that it will take time for that relationship to build, and it may not happen all at once. However, if you feel like you've known this person forever even though you just met, then tell them what you're comfortable with telling them.
4. Are there certain moments/ situations when they ignore you?
If they don't go out of their way to acknowledge your existence, then hit the ejection button and get out of there! No one deserves to feel ignored or unwanted. At last resort, tell this person you want to talk and hang out more. A little communication never hurts.
5. Body language says all. Do they make you physically uncomfortable?
Coming on too strong is one of the biggest mistakes anyone can make in the modern age of relationships. Even if you're not looking to getting into someone's pants, coming on too strong can make that illusion. Make sure you're both relaxed and comfortable.
6. Are they comfortable looking you in the eye?
Eye contact lets people know you can trust them. Eye contact is also a sign of attraction.
7. Do your friends like/ approve him?
Now before you throw this tip to the way side, take your friend's opinions into consideration. Your friends have a certain perspective on the relationship that you don't. You may be able to forgive an small error, but your friends will keep score. They want what's best for you, so listen to them.
8. Are they emotionally ready for a relationship?
If you know they're just coming out of a relationship, maybe you should just be friends for a little while. You don't want to be a result of their mistake. Plus you want to make sure they will be totally invested in you.
9. Are you emotionally ready for a relationship?
For the same reasons above, don't put someone in the position of a rebound. You may come to regret it, and you may also lose the trust of the new person that has caught your eye.
10. Have they made any negative impressions on you thus far?
Late for the date? Hasn't said anything to you in days? Anything that you've had a negative reaction to needs to be considered.
