Sex is natural. The world today talks so freely about sex that I feel I can too.

Sex is being done among many people in many age ranges. Sex is looked at differently in different age ranges as well. Grown men and woman look at it differently, and young men and women look at it differently.

In a perfect world, you would be finding your soulmate while only having the baggage of dating and not sex. That would be the ideal way. In our generation, kids are losing their virginity before leaving high school.

I'm not here to bring them to the light in shameful ways, I'm here to see that be put to an end. In reality, by the time you marry who you find to be your soulmate, you have slept with one person or more. In high school we experiment. You date someone for a while, and you decide if you feel like they're the one.

So we have sex while in high school, for guys its encouraged. Having sex in high school as a girl isn't so cool and accepted. Girls are slut shamed for doing natural life things.

Guys are able to boast how many girls they've been with while girls are quiet hoping he keeps her secret. As guys we're glorified, as for the girls they're put down.

So we move on to college, and we experiment more. The difference here is, the shaming is calmed down-- almost nonexistent. Lots of people are having sex. Guys are still boastful, but woman can now say that they've had sex and not feel like the whole world is judging them.

We move on in life and we move on with people and relationships. We have more sexual relations and this time it's not a surprise. When you're off ready to get married, do the number of partners you've had really matter?

So stop giving hell to the girls in school for being with a guy they think they trust. There are people doing worse behind closed doors, so just because you know someone isn't innocent does not give you reason to make them feel trashy.

Sex is natural. If it happens, it happens.