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You Can Only Leave It Up To Fate

Let it go, and let life happen.

Olyvia Claire Lose

Sep 27, 2017

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I believe everything happens for a reason; every tear, smile, and wrinkle on your face was perfectly placed. It sounds cliche but everything is either a lesson or a blessing. Sometimes, it is hard to decipher the difference. Nevertheless, everything is as it should be.

I wish more people saw life this way. It is an oddly realistic look at life. In some ways, it is optimistic because it allows you to stay positive in hard times. Yet, in ways, it is pessimistic because you have to accept this is the way your life is in this moment.

Regardless, it is extremely fulfilling to accept your life for exactly what it is.

When I look around, I see my loving family, crazy friends, and small remembrances of all the amazing times in my life. If I focused on all the small things, I would never be happy, and I like to think I'm the happiest person in the world.

Isn't fate a crazy thing? Have you ever met someone you almost met 100 times, and then you do. All the sudden your life just changed for the better. When you look back, if you would have met them just a second earlier it would have been different.

Every friend that I lost, gave me room for new friendships. Every boy that made me cry, made me realize I am perfectly fine alone. Every bad grade made me work harder for the next A. Life is too short to overanalyze happening. Just remember, even storms are accompanied by a rainbow.

Life can be scary. It can be dark at times. Not everything that happens makes sense.

That is OK.

The best things in life are completely and utterly unplanned. They remind us why things happen. You cannot plan life, but isn't is comforting to think that eventually, everything will work out. If it has not worked out, it is not the end. The best is yet to come.

Stay thankful for the mistakes, errors, and tragedies. One day, you will look back and thank God everything happened the way it did. Live life without fear. Do stupid things for they just might pay off. Today is the day you actually start living. Go do something crazy. Learn to love yourself. Stop planning and analyzing. It will only hurt you in the end.

My goal in life is to never let life get me down. I can only worry so much; it is up to fate anyways. Let it go, it is out of your control.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

Don't freak out

Email the professor

Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

Remember that everything works out at the end

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