There's A Reason People Cheat, You Have To Understand That
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There's A Reason People Cheat, You Have To Understand That

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There's A Reason People Cheat, You Have To Understand That
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You hear about it all the time but the question is why do it? Why cheat? Why would you want to trade Chanel for Walmart? Because they're unsatisfied with what they have sexually and emotionally. When in a relationship you're in it for the emotional support as well as sexual support. You're both happy because you have someone to satisfy your needs.

The thing is what happens when these needs are not satisfied? Cheating, it's as simple as that.

When someone is cheating in a relationship they're looking for something their partner is not providing them with whether it's sex or a shoulder to cry on. Sometimes people are not satisfied in the sheets and need to have someone else for that. Sometimes people find their partner is not as emotionally available as they thought and need someone to turn to for that support.

People look so negatively at cheating, yes it's wrong but the question is how wrong?

When in a relationship consider this, how can we fix this problem? What can we do to better what we have and grow? Consider talking about it cause the question that needs to be asked is why stay if you're unhappy with the person? Why lead them on and get too caught up in a relationship to where things end badly? Why would you want to hurt someone to where they have that scar on them forever?

It's because you don't want to lose the safety net. People want to stay so badly because it's safe. Because you know how they feel and know they have no intention of ending things. So you stay even unhappy because you find happiness in another embrace they make you feel alive.

Everyone wants to be comfortable and safe but still have a thrill.

Do you really need that thrill? Why not try to find that thrill in other ways? Surely you've heard of trying new things, and that's because it's true you try new things you find things you like. There are so many reasons to cheat and so many ways to fix your relationship before it goes downhill.

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