To start off, I did not know I was an introvert until a couple months ago at a Leadership Summit at San Diego State University. When I found out, the world made sense. Soon after I realized that being an introvert sucks. Now let me tell you why.

First of all, there is a misconception of depression. Just because I like to be alone doesn't mean I'm depressed. An introvert needs to be alone to help restore their energy in order to keep on going. Why? Well, because that's how one gathers their thoughts, and recharge, it's weird I know.

Another thing, an introvert does not talk much. It is not that they're shy, they just choose their words carefully and think about everything. They sometimes over think the littlest things. Furthermore, introverts do not waste time or energy on needless chit-chat. They like to stick to important topics and subjects that really matter, and not so much for the hottest topics in the mainstream world. That is why introverts like to go to the deeper part of conversations, you can say they like to cut out the 'non-sense,' for a better word, in conversations or they simply do not partake in them.

What really grinds my gears is that some people think they are not liked, when around an introvert, because they do not talk to them. It is just that introverts like to have a close group of friends because they like to stick to deep long-lasting relationships (marked by a great deal of closeness and intimacy) rather than a large circle of superficial meaningless relationships.

So moving away from how introverts are, and if it was not enough you can always do your own research, you may discover that you too are an introvert.

Now to get to the real essence of this article about why I hate being an introvert. The biggest thing that bothers me is that I am always misjudged. People assume that I am mad or not having a good time, whether I am at a social event or simply hanging out with friends. I know my facial expression does not help, but I enjoy myself wherever I am. I try to make the best of everything, even though all I do is think and observe the world around me. So do not stop having fun or feeling bad, just simply ask and trust an introvert, and if you are tired of other conversations, feel free to talk about thoughtful topics with an introvert.

Moreover, I do not hate people. I just do not know you well enough to talk and express myself to you. Do not take this as an insult, take this opportunity to make a long-term friend and say hello. At the same time, I may not start small talk because I dislike small talk, and most people hate having long talks. I understand that it is a good way to avoid "awkwardness," but it is not awkward until you make it awkward. Also, I enjoy people's company even though we are not having a conversation. I believe enjoying someone's company is more intimate than just trying to create small talk and getting on with your life. If you really wanted to be around someone you would actually take the time to have a real conversation, which is more than asking them about sports or how they are doing in classes. Try asking more meaningful and thoughtful questions, they will go a long way and you will feel more connected after a having a deeper conversation.

Have you ever heard of being alone is where you find yourself? Well, that is exactly what I like to do. I believe that you will not find what you are looking for in the world without first looking within yourself. I like to take the time of the day and lose myself within myself. It may not make sense, but have you tried it? It is quite similar to meditating or reflecting on yourself and life.

I leave you with this: Next time you meet or suspect someone is an introvert, please cut them some slack, for they are only human. At the same time, you should feel blessed because I read that introverts make up sixty percent of the gifted population. Also, as both your paths cross, they are willing to take part in your life.