The smile I see on my best friend’s face when we’re doing physics problems made me wonder, what shortcut did she find to find the net force that I didn’t? Turns out, it’s not the net force that made her smile, but the force of another person coming into her life that always makes sure she has a smile on her face.
You get what you deserve. I’ve seen this phrase all over social media, and multiple people have even told me this. You will get what you deserve. I decided to change it up a little bit and add in, you will get the person you deserve.
We try so hard to try and find someone who makes us laugh, smile at everything, and not have to hide parts of ourselves. Looking in temporary places, filled with temporary people we desperately try to hold onto. Though I am telling you that it's time to let go of the tight hold that is doing nothing but making you wish you things were different, that makes your heart bleed out in internal pain. It’s time to let go of that temporary person in your life.
It’s time to let go of someone who is doing more damage to your life than good. You may think of reasons why they are good to you, moments in the past that have been happy, and the emptiness you don’t want to fill up again. Let it go. It will be hard, but it will be worth it. Anyone who is toxic shouldn’t have an open and granted place in your life.
You can keep telling yourself reason after reason why they should stay, but you can’t ignore the reasons why they should leave. The first one being the way they treat you, and how you treat yourself afterwards. It all stems from there, how you treat yourself, and the thoughts you manifest afterwards; that is the key factor in realizing you deserve better.
Trust me on this one. It may seem empty, you may want to try again with that person, but don’t. Don’t do that to yourself. You are more than the sporadic moments of attention given when they want to give it. You are more than the empty compliments given when they are lonely. You are more than trying to tape a broken plate together.
When you let go of a toxic person, it opens doors for someone amazing to come through. Now I know why my best friend smiles randomly when we’re doing physics. It’s not because she found a shortcut, no, it’s because she found someone who treats her like her smile is the sun he wakes up to. She let go of the toxic person who did nothing but fill her heart with empty compliments. Letting go was her biggest strength. She focused on herself, and along came someone who deserves her.
Have faith; you will get the person you deserve.
