At some point in the past five years, the term “white girl” has become an accepted term in society's language. It’s used interchangeably with “basic” or combined for a more effective “basic white girl.” But what is the difference between a normal young girl, and a basic white girl? Most would say it’s the interest in brands like Hunter, Lilly Pulitzer, Starbucks, Jeep — or plaid blanket scarves.

Many say it as a joke or with negative meaning, but some people just like the same things and that’s okay. Girls like Hunter boots for their versatility and simple style just like boys like Timberland boots for their ease and practicality. Girls like Lululemon yoga pants for comfort just like guys like joggers for the same reason. These things deemed “basic” by many, are simply popular trends that most people enjoy.

So please stop using this term to insult women. It is fine to say and joke around but when it’s meant to be hurtful it needs to stop. These things that women like don’t make them any less intelligent, funny or beautiful. Embracing the trends that become well liked among girls will get you so much farther than putting her down for her favorite things. Ladies, drink what you like, wear your favorite clothes and be who you are. Buy the “white girl” in your life a coffee and I can guarantee you will make her day far more than telling her she is “basic” after she buys her own.

I am a “white girl." I am regularly called this but I have come to learn to laugh it off. Yes, I love getting Starbucks. It’s warm and inviting with a sense of comfort in every cup. Yes, I own Hunter boots and a Lilly Pulitzer agenda. Both of these are extremely useful and make me smile at the same time. My blanket scarf is cozy and calming and feels like a hug all day long. I am proud of these things and they are a part of who I am. All these things are simple but provide happiness daily.

The next time you call me basic, I will not be ashamed of it. I will not stop wearing my Hunter’s and I will openly Instagram pictures laughing with my best friends with cheesy captions. When you call me a “white girl” next time, I will raise my soy chai latte to you and proudly say, ”Yes I am, thanks for noticing.”