People fall in love all the time and they constantly tell you that you just know but how do you really know? You've been hurt before everyone has maybe that's why the walls are up. Maybe that's why you don't settle with anyone, why you're talking to more than one person. It's cause you don't want that pain.

Eventually, you meet someone really meet someone and they're amazing. You keep talking to them because God, they are just great and you love how great they are. That word comes up... "Love."

That word that just scares you and makes you wanna curl up in a corner and push them back. So you do what you know best you push you to say things thinking maybe if they see other parts of me they won't keep pushing for more.

The thing is though eventually, you'll meet someone who keeps pushing someone who doesn't get scared and run away.

That makes things difficult because you just don't know what to do. Do you end things with them? No why would you because they're staying. They are different from the others and that makes you want to keep them. So you start seeing each other more and more and finally, you become exclusive and wonder how did I do this.

After some time you start seeing them in a new light and start to think of that word again. Love... do I love them? You both eventually say it to each other but after some time you start to wonder is it true? Do I love them? How do you really know how are you sure?

That's the thing though you can't be sure because the thing about love is it just happens. You're gonna be unsure because love takes the time it doesn't happen right away but it does happen over time. You both said it and yeah, you both might mean it. You mean it to a degree though.

Love takes time to grow.

You don't have love-at-first-sight, you have a desire everyone has desires but with time the love will come. It will grow into something beautiful that you see with your parents or in the movies. There will always be that uncertainty but sometimes you just don't need to know where things will go you just have to go with it and be there for the ride.