It's girls night out. You are dressed up and ready to go have a good time with your ladies: makeup done, dress on, and eyebrows on fleek. Then all of a sudden a group of guys come over with their wingmen trying to sweep us off our feet. How to put a halt to it before it actually starts is our first thought. But when that sneaky man gets through the crowd one of you is doomed…
Here is what most women think when being hit on:
The slick “buy your next drink” guy:
You're at a bar and the bartender hands you the next drink for free. Unless you are an 11 out of 10, this is seen as just a free drink to a female. And if you are over 50 years old, we see you as the creep.
The “Games” guy:
When you get past the first step of having to meet, there is always something more. This is where the games guy comes in. He will try to get you to play the "if you win I get a kiss, if I win you get a kiss." These are the worst kind of men because from a female's point of view we lose on both sides.
The “cheesy pickup line” guy:
Being approached always gives women a sense of flattery and utterly creeped feeling. What makes being hit on 10 times worse is when a man throws the “are you from Tennessee because you're the only 10 I see” kind of line. These make us feel uncomfortable, so before a man opens his mouth he should think wisely.
The “Cocky Asshole” guy:
My personal favorite… you are approached by a guy who is usually well dressed and good-looking. He walks with that straight posture and a drink in his hand. He uses his sharp tongue and piercing eyes to get the girl he’s eyeing. For many, this works, but for the others, we think you have done this way too many times to be this good. You, sir, are a man whore.
The “Let me stalk you all night” guy:
Ever have that guy who you see eyeing you from across the room? Its not like you make eye contact because he will never let that happen, but wherever you are, whenever you turn around there he is.
The “I know everything” guy:
He sounds smart when you first meet and he seems to be the most interesting person you have ever met. His stories become so extreme that you realized during his fifth adventure through the deserts of Africa he must be making some of his experiences up. He is a liar; please run.
The “Narcissist” guy:
Have you ever sat there and had to listen to the conversation drag on about how awesome someone is? We have all been there. We, as ladies, LOVE to talk about ourselves. We go out to talk about ourselves because we know we are much more than just a pretty face. We need a guy who can listen and not always turn the story into them. Especially the first time meeting.
