The 21st century has been continuously introducing more and more technology to us. Although this may seem like an achievement, some individuals within our society may beg to differ. Somehow, relationships are being destroyed by mobile devices and popular apps. I've realized, however, that some of the happiest, loving marriages are a product of our grandparents' generation. If their relationships could strive without social media, ours can too. It is a shame that the youth today obsess over their phone: constantly checking to see if their girlfriend/boyfriend "liked" someone else's selfie on Instagram or waiting for a text back. Although I do use my phone often and downloaded these apps, I do not believe a relationship should be revolved around a device. We should not allow our generation to be defined by social media. There are more efficient, fun ways to communicate with your significant other.

First, what is a better way of communicating than spending time with a loved one face-to-face? Although relaxing in the house all day long watching your favorite show together is peaceful, some of the best memories I have made with my boyfriend are when we go out and adventure. We enjoy finding random trails in the woods that lead to small beaches or cute new coffee shops that we've never tried out before. Going out to new shops with the person you're comfortable with also comes with many advantages. When you first try out a place, you never know what item on the menu you should choose. Thankfully, you've developed the perfect strategy over time; you can convince your boyfriend or girlfriend to order one of the sandwiches that you're choosing from so that you can steal theirs just in case you decide to change your mind just as the food is delivered (which always seems to happen). Fortunately, you two probably crave the same types of foods so they usually do not have a problem with the switch either. Also, this time out provides you with the perfect opportunity to vent all about your problems this week. Whether they are interested in hearing about which professor pissed you off this time, they'll listen and you'll feel better.

The main reason why it irks me seeing so many couples monitoring one another's social media accounts is because this is (obviously) due to a lack of trust. Without trust, I do not see how a relationship can be healthy. If an individual is paranoid that their girlfriend/boyfriend is giving someone else attention, then this just seems to be an extreme problem in itself since trust is such a crucial factor in healthy relationships. There's no need to make assumptions unless they ever gave you a reason for you to believe they are not staying faithful to you.

Please—put your phone down when you're with your loved one and live in the moment. We do not deserve to be looked at as the generation who must be glued to their phones constantly. Learn to appreciate the time you're able to spend together!