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I Wear 'Cheeky' Bathing Suits Because That's What I'm Most Comfy In, But Nobody Asked You

My swimsuit has nothing to do with you.

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I Wear 'Cheeky' Bathing Suits Because That's What I'm Most Comfy In, But Nobody Asked You
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It's a common misconception with everything a girl wears that they're wearing it to attract a man. Like, genuinely everything. Maybe that stems from a sense of entitlement or the fact that women used to be treated as property, I don't know, but I've definitely had enough of it.

It's a swimsuit, pal.

I shouldn't have to feel ashamed or insecure about posting pictures of myself in a swimsuit because people deem it "scandalous" for showing a little bit more of my butt than with swimsuits of past trends. I shouldn't have to validate my reasoning for my swimsuit with anyone other than myself.

It's cute. It's comfy. So, I buy it and wear it.

Cheeky swimsuits are just superior in comfort. I didn't design them, so don't blame me. I just slide the bottoms on and it's perfect. The issue isn't with what swimsuit I choose to wear, it's with your behavior. Debra, the middle-aged woman who slut shames on Facebook. Chad, the frat boy who catcalls because he thinks a little extra skin means she's slutty.

You're the problem. Not my ass.

I don't need your approval on what swimsuit to wear, especially since I'm an independent adult. My body is mine, not yours. If you don't like cheeky swimsuits, just don't wear them— that can be said with every swimsuit type, too. It's just an article of clothing, there's no need to damn it to Hell or shame those who wear it.

I'll keep looking hot in my swimsuit while you trash people approximately 40 years younger than you, Helen. And no, Brad, girls don't want a trashy guy who heckles girls just trying to tan.

Swimsuits are about comfort and confidence. You wear what makes yourself happy, whatever swimsuit that is. Your Instagram feed will be looking good, and so will your body. Don't be afraid to show a little ass.

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