Liking Sex Does Not Make You A Slut
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Liking Sex Does Not Make You A Slut

And if it does your mom's a slut too.

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Liking Sex Does Not Make You A Slut
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First off, what the hell is a hoe? Last time I checked it was a gardening tool? So now I'm an object to you?

If you think that a girl is a hoe because she enjoys exploring and embracing her sexuality, then I hate to tell you this but your mom's a hoe too. Yes, I came at your mother. Because the truth is, you probably wouldn't be here if your mom didn't have any sort of sexual experiences. And I HATE to put this image in your head but I'm sure she's still getting a little action while you're out worrying about a next females vagina. Yes, I said it, vagina.

Tell me this, did you ever ask your mom if she enjoys sex? I mean, really. Did you ever ask her how many sex partners did she have? Those are things you don't need to know right? Exactly. Why is it any of your business to keep track of who a female is engaging in sexual activity with? The thing is why is it okay for males to enjoy sex. Is it understandable right? Sex is there for pleasure and enjoyment. Then, why is when a female enjoys sex as much as a male she's looked at as a slut?

Oh, double fucking standards. You know that stupid saying, "A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock". It's complete bullshit. Not only is it complete bullshit, I don't like to call myself a feminist, but I call that stupid ass metaphor sexist. The fact that this metaphor exists in order to justify male sexuality and shame female sexuality is absurd. A pencil that gets sharpened too much is eventually reduced to nothing. A pencil sharpener can sharpen tons of pencils and be just fine. If you get what I'm saying (and for the people who don't understand Google is at the tip of your fingers).

A man is not any more or less horny than a female. In fact, we have the power of sexuality right at our tips. We can be fully clothed and still turn a man on. It's just how society has conditioned us differently. They've given men the myth that it is in their nature to be a ravishing beast and to crave sex more. And conditioned women not to step out of the guidelines of purity. But the truth is, there are no guidelines birthed with us attached to our vagina's

Sexuality is a normal function of human life. And both males and females are part of this human life.We are wired from birth for sexual pleasure, and that sexual want develops as we get older. Our bodies, in fact, are designed to experience in fact more sexual pleasure than men. Truth be told, the clit exists for just sexual pleasure and nothing else. The female body also get's wet during arousal. And let's not forget the infamous G-spot (which some guys can't find because their cockiness doesn't match up with their....You get the gist). The females body was made for the pleasure of sex besides reproduction.

It's truly all about a female's perspective. If you rather one partner or you rather wait then let that be up to you. Your choice on what to do with your body should not be dictated by someone else. It is a female's choice to stay educated on how to stay safe. It is no one's choice but the females.

"In order to become sexually empowered, you may have to break away from the stereotypes that society enforces on people and confront negative feelings that you have acquired about sexuality."

It sucks that many females out there aren't in touch with their bodies, and can't truly find out what they like sexually because they're too busy trying to sexually reach the demands of their selfish misogynistic partner. It's okay to firmly put your foot down, and tell your partner that tonight is your night and that you want to explore a certain sexual side of yourself that you weren't allowed to explore before. And if that includes toys, porn, and even handcuffs then you are free to do whatever you want to do. You can masturbate as much as you want. You have the power of CHOICE. Take ownership of your sexuality and your body.

And if that makes a female a hoe, then your mother, your grandmother and your whole female generation are sluts too.

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