Every year, most sororities elect men to be their chapter's "sweetheart." Sometimes it's just one man that earns the title, but some sororities choose a couple to have as sweethearts. You could say his role is kind of like an older brother to the women. He's the one you call when you need help with anything. Whether it's to change your tire, walk you home, or someone to vent to, your sweetheart is the guy to call.
These men truly are amazing and sometimes I feel like they really don't know how much we appreciate everything they do for us. With that being said, sweethearts, here is our "thank you."
Thank you for always having our best interest in mind.
You will tell us what we should do when we come to you for advice. This could be about school, my future, boy problems, or anything else that we aren't sure about. You keep it real and you want what is best for us. You honestly believe that you represent the best sorority on campus and you want to see us succeed. We love you for that.
Thank you for dealing with the crazy side no one else sees.
You have seen all of us at our best, and some of us at our absolute worst. We could be going insane, storm off down the street at 3 AM and you'd chase after us. You would calm us down and say whatever we're dealing with isn't worth it because we deserve so much better. We love you SO much for that.
Thank you for the cookies.
Cookies, brownies, candy, you name it. We stress about the calories we eat, but you say we deserve a break and you want us to treat ourselves to some sweets every now and then. The second our group message says, "Sweetheart brought food. It's in the kitchen," a herd comes running down the stairs and it's a fight to the finish. We love you for that.
Thank you for knowing what to say.
When we're having that mental breakdown or when we don't know what we want, whatever you say to us is... brilliant. How do you honestly know the right thing to say to us? It's like a superpower you guys have. It always makes sense and it's always what we need to hear. We love you for that.
Thank you for taking cute pics.
...even if it takes a million tries to make our "candid" actually look believable.
Thank you for representing us.
We wear our letters proudly. We stand for incredible values and represent our chapter to the best of our ability. By giving you the title of our sweetheart, you hold a place in our hearts, too. We believe that you have these same standards in your life and that's why we decided that you would be the best representative as our sorority's sweetheart. We love you for that.
