To My Future Husband With Love,

(If you are even out there)

We may not know each other yet and that’s fine- I cannot wait to meet you. If we do happen to know each other well geez…took you long enough and I wish it happened sooner!

It’s hard to get the right words out because heck I don’t know if you even exist.

Well anyway the first thing I even want to say is thank you. I know I probably say thank you or I’m sorry WAY too much but just know I mean it every time, even in the most ridiculous scenarios. I really don’t know how you put up with my crazy antics and my (sometimes) overwhelming personality, or maybe I’ve gotten a hold on it by the time we are together. Either way, I applaud you for doing so. As you should know by now, I am really not the best writer nor am I the best at expressing how I feel. I can’t necessarily express how I feel while typing this up because we aren’t together yet, but I’m sure you will receive an ear full once we are.

I would like to tell you and promise you, that no matter what I will always appreciate you and do my best to make you feel like your best self. I want to grow old with you and cherish every lasting moment together. I will be your best friend and the love of your life and you will be the same to me.

I know I am a lot to handle sometimes but here are a few things that you absolutely, positively need to know :

Our wedding better be perfect

Everything from the rings to our honeymoon. I have always dreamed of the perfect wedding ever since I was little so please just go along with all the bells and whistles. It will be great, I promise.

I am stubborn and indecisive AND I am most definitely NOT a morning person

Please don’t be mad when I sit around for hours complaining that I’m hungry but I don’t know what I want to eat or when I am totally set on eating something for dinner and I am too stubborn to change my mind. Sometimes I don’t even make sense. ( You probably should also know by now that I am passionate about food) . As much as I would like to say I am a morning person… I am totally not. I get really cranky if I’m up too early and I again apologize in advance if I come off as rude or off-putting in the wee hours of the morning. I am also told I talk in my sleep sometimes…whoops

Your family is my family

I am all about togetherness. I will love your family as much as I love mine.( I pray they love me too). I also hope you love my family just the same. My family may be a tad crazy but they are the most lovable people out there.Plus I plan on having about 2-3 more kids. I hope you like big families.

I will not be a Trophy Wife

I am not meant to sit still and look pretty. I am an adventure seeker. I do not plan on being a housewife or a stay-at-home mom. I plan to work just as hard as you if not perhaps even harder. I am a go-getter and I enjoy working and if we are both on the grind it will be twice as rewarding. I also do not expect the white-picket fence and house by the lake. I will be happy no matter what, as long as it’s with you.

Times will probably get tough at some point

Just know I will never leave you if things get tough during our marriage. We made a promise to each other I plan to keep it for as long as I live.

I will always be there for moral support and to be your shoulder to cry on

I know men prefer not to get emotional but let’s be honest; there will come a time where you need someone to talk to. I will do that. At 2AM eating takeout and discussing our feelings or being there for when you’ve had a rough day. I will emotionally support you; regardless the case.

I will love you endlessly

Every smile, every tear, and every word exchanged- Mark my words, till death do us part.

Love Always, Victoria