If you are anything like me, you probably have a few signature things that you want on your Christmas list this year. However, the older you get, the more you realize that you have more than you really need. Christmas is the time of year to meet up with your loved ones, family, high school friends, and friends that go to other colleges. It is perfect for unwinding from the busy school year and crazy work schedule so you can baking Christmas cookies, watching elf, and chilling by the fire. It is the best time of year for everyone, except for those in need.

This Christmas, I want you to take a second to think about those in your community. Think about the women and children at the shelters trying to get back on their feet. Think about the homeless veteran rummaging through trash cans to pay for his next meal. Try to stare less in disgust at the man who got consumed by drugs and alcohol addiction that begs for money on the street. Stop for the dog or cat that is running across the street for the nearest sheltered area to warm up in. Teach your children to be kind to their classmate that has been coming to school in a ratty winter coat and passed down snow boots. Give the man or woman ringing the bell at the local grocery store for the Salvation Army a nod even if you are not donating money because they are donating their time. Smile at the little boy or girl fighting for their lives in the hospital this season because they are beautiful inside and out. Hold the door open for the individual using a walker, wheel chair, or mobile scooter in order to get around. Thank your local police and fire department for their efforts to keep your community safe. Applaud the nurses and doctors who are on call all season (and year) long. Be kind to the retail workers who are dealing with your crazy shopping extravaganzas. Offer a helping hand to the single mother or father trying to get their groceries out to their car with their children fussing about. Keep your eyes peeled for the dog or cat that your neighbor lost as their child puts up signs as a cry for help. Thank the service men and women who may be having a hard time recovering from their time overseas and even hear at home. This Christmas, think about how you can make an impact on your community just by simply putting yourself in others shoes.

For this Holiday season, give the gift of kindness, respect, help, and be thankful. Giving back to others by showing kindness and giving your time to volunteer can be one of the greatest gifts of all. Some simple ways to give back can range from giving your spare change to the Salvation Army to volunteering at the nearest soup kitchen. Have gently warn clothes that Plato’s closet and other clothing exchanges will not take? Bring that clothes to the local shelter to cloth someone this year. If donating to animal shelters is more your speed, donate food, toys, treats, or adopt an animal. Make sure to take in animals you find on the street and bring them to the local shelter, they may just be waiting to go home or find a new home. Offer to clean off the drive way for the elderly, disabled, or just because you feel like helping a neighbor out. Purchase Love Your Melon hats or help make tie blankets with Fleece and Thank You in order to help children in the hospitals have a little more comfortable of a stay. While these are only a few ways to give back, there are so many more that you can come up with that not only help those in need, but also help a cause that you are passionate about.

I wish every one of my readers a very Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Happy New Year. No matter if you help your community or not this season, just be conscious of those around you and their struggles. I wish you a warm season with your families, friends, and loved ones filled with memories that will last a life time. Remember to give the gift of giving this season and please remember to drive safe and get a designated driver. Warm Wishes to all.