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11 very ignorant questions and comments virgins are tired of hearing

I don't think I need to cover my ears to listen to your sexual conversation.

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No kid-gloves needed, people, virgins can handle your conversations about "S-E-X."


Here are 11 questions virgins are tired of answering:

1. "So like you have never done anything? No oral, no nothing?"

No I haven't, actually. Hence, why I consider myself a virgin.

2. "Are you a virgin by choice or you just have bad luck?"

There's a thing called decisions and with that comes a choice. And I've chosen to keep my v-card until I feel like it's the right moment.

3. "Aww, you are like a baby!"

Last time I checked I'm an adult and my sexual decisions have nothing to do with immaturity. I'd like to think otherwise.

4. "Are you like super religious, then?"

Eh, I'd consider myself more of a spiritual individual. I don't think I need religion to have morals and boundaries.

5. "Sorry I'm making you uncomfortable with my sex stories! Cover your ears!"

What am I, the Virgin Mary? Am I 6?

6. "Watch, you're going to lose it before you know it"

I will lose it when I feel like it and anything else outside of that I'm sure is considered rape.

7. "OMG but you are so pretty! You don't look like a virgin"

A person's appearance has nothing to do with their sexual choices. But thanks?

8. "Honestly, it's not a big deal"

But I think it is. I'd rather wait, feel comfortable with myself, and find the one I'm sure to spend the rest of my life with in order to have sex. To you it's not a big deal, but to me it is. Have you heard of STD's?

9. "Don't you wan't to test drive the car?"

Sometimes the car we want needs a paint job, some new rims, a great sound system, or even needs to be lowered from the back. If I love the car enough, I can make adjustments and better it with time.

10. "Do you REALLY want to wait until marriage?"

There are some people who want to find the right S.O. or their marriage partner in order to lose their v-card. So for me, it's a yes. I will wait until then.

11. "Don't worry when we go out next time, I'm going to help you find someone so you can have the experience"

I'm good love, enjoy.

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