The Importance Of Relaxation

The Importance Of Relaxation

I don't know how to do it, either.

I am completely burnt out. I wish I would have learned this sooner. This semester has been the hardest one so far for me, and I just keep loading myself up with work that I'm not able to handle. I took on four jobs and seven classes and left no "me" time in my schedule. I've had a cold for the last three weeks that I'm not able to shake for the mere reason that... I don't know how to relax.

To begin my journey of relaxation, I did what any stressed out college student would do. I googled "how to relax" and found myself on YouTube listening to 3 hours of relaxation music while staring at my ceiling thinking about all of the things that I still have to do.

I suggest that you try this at home, but instead of thinking as much as I do, actually close your eyes and let the music consume you and take you to a state of peace. Let it knock you out, calm you down, and take you to a higher place.

Then after I got done listening to this, I realized that I was still stressed out and that nothing would ever work for me. So, I did some more Googling and came across this beautiful "Eucalyptus Spearmint body lotion."

You need this. You may think that you don't, but I'm telling you that you need to buy it. I was a non-believer in this aromatherapy business at one point, too, but there's something about the smell of nature that sends you to a happier place.

Then I went for a walk in the park. No, really. The internet told me that a great way to relax was to do all of the things that make me happy. I didn't know the answer to that question, so I turned to the happiest thing that I have in my life; my dog.

We can actually learn a lot from dogs. One of the main things is how to live your life carefree, happy, and forever young. Don't stress out about the toys you chew up, focus on the milkbones in the moment and always beg for table scraps because one of these days, you might get a special treat. I'm not sure if that's the best set of advice, but it all works for my pup, so I'm going to live by those rules, too.

When it comes down to it, I still don't know how to relax. Maybe I shouldn't take so much on. Maybe I should do these few things a little more often and the daily stress of life wouldn't seem so overwhelming. When people tell me to "give up one thing," I get offended. I thrive off of being busy. Business is happiness, but you can't be busy if you're burnt out.

Listen to the music.

Smell the mint.

Walk the dog.

Those are the best tips I have for you.

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So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

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Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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Essential oils are oils that come from flowers and parts of plants. They can be used in different ways, such as aromatherapy and topical use, and have several different purposes. There are many commonly used essential oils and others that are not as popular. My top essential oils are the ones that I personally feel have the greatest impact.

Everyone is different, so I recommend trying to do some research to find out which ones are best for you.

1. Lavender

Lavender is commonly used for relaxation and to improve your quality of sleep. It even comes in sprays so that you can spray it on your bed before going to sleep.

2. Tea Tree

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