It's that time of year again. Everywhere, kids are leaving the nest — whether for the first time or for the fifth. We're all headed to bigger, better places (or in some cases, the cheapest place) to create the foundation of our future careers. College can be scary, especially if you're an introvert in a world designed for extroverts.

The first day of school is like a second chance for a New Years' resolution. You'll make friends in all your classes. You'll go to the gym every other day. You'll run for house president. Basically, you're going to show High School You how far you've come.

Let's be realistic. Sometimes we underestimate how hard it's going to be to any of these things. There are some people you just don't click with, and that's okay. Sometimes you need to prioritize homework over setting off the lunk alarm at the gym. Sometimes other people will win house president. All of that? That's okay. What's important is that you made the first step, and you tried.

I've heard it all my life, but I never really took it seriously — college really is a great time to make connections. Every day that passes, the more I regret not utilizing my adviser more often. I've essentially disconnected myself from my first major, and I can tell. Getting to know your professors is great. They'll write you letters of recommendation, or help you with research, or help you get a job later on in life. Appreciate them.

Another great way to build contacts is by joining student organizations. My freshman year, I decided to jump head first in to the experience and ran for vice president of my resident dorm house. I got it, and that got me in to my first leadership banquet. Since then, I've joined an honor society, a sorority and three student organizations. I don't regret it at all. One of the organizations gave me the job I have now.

And beyond the contacts I've made, I've made many great friends with a wide variety of skills and backgrounds. It's incredible. So, don't even feel ashamed for joining your school's Doctor Who club. These are ways of getting to meet people with at least one common interest. It can be anything from chemistry to card games. And honestly? If there's nothing that's calling your name, start your own club.

So unlike the resolutions we've long since abandoned, stick this one out. Go out there and meet some people. You shouldn't be lonely during your college years. After all, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.