Dear Dad,
Sometimes you make me mad. Like when you ask me to go to church every Sunday, go on a hike on my day off, or when you give me advice about my finances. You make me mad, because I know you’re right. Basically, I just don’t want to admit that I am wrong. Admitting that I’m wrong is a hard thing to do. I may throw a fit in the moment, but it’s very humbling to look back on my life and realize that your advice has given me a set of skills and maturity that most people my age don’t have quite yet.
I want to thank you for pushing me. I also want to apologize for all the times that I complained and said I didn’t want to listen. Believe it or not, I was listening and I still am listening. You have taught me to be strong physically and mentally by being an example of strength. You have taught me what love between a husband and wife looks like. I have also learned to love the outdoors. You have provided for our family and your hard work has given me so many opportunities. I promise that I won’t take those opportunities for granted. I also wanted to thank you for raising me in a church. I have gained knowledge in my faith and seen an example of faith from you that I look up to. As an adult, I can now build my own faith and use your guidance as an example.
I remember all of the camping trips that you took us on and that one time when you encouraged me to jump off of that boulder into the Ohanapecosh River. I also remember all of the times that I would walk into the house with a new coat or haircut and you would tell me that I look like mom and I look beautiful. It’s an honor when you tell me that I look like mom. Do you remember when we hiked with our skis out to Microwave and you took a video of Michael and me skiing down the side of the mountain? Thank you for teaching me how to ski off of the main trails, I always have a blast when we go into the mountains.
Ultimately, I just want you to know that I love you and I appreciate you. You’re a good dad and although I’m not living at home anymore, I know that you are thinking of me. I know that you will always take care of me and love me. Thank you for leading me by example. I am now stronger, smarter, and more joyful because of the skills and love that you have given me. I may be grown up and at college now, but I will always be your little girl and you will always be my dad. So dad, thanks for being my "old man" and thanks for marrying an amazing woman who I call mom. I love you both so much.
With love,
Your Grateful Daughter
