The teeter-tottering mind is another term for being indecisive. It symbolizes the pros and cons in your mind in any situation. Mostly when it deals with relationships and yourself. The questions that create it to teeter is usually, "Am I actually ready for a relationship?" "Do I like actually like him?" "Why does he even like me?"

The answers to the questions are simple, but people like to complicate things and it into 50 shades of complicated instead of the black and white version. People create simple questions to overpower their minds and it's the only subconscious thought they have.

Question: "Am I actually ready for a relationship?"

Answer: If you can say without hesitating hat you are happy with yourself and you love yourself then you're ready. If you are capable of caring and loving someone who you have identified as someone who respects and accepts you for you, with no need to change you, then yes. If you have learned from your past mistakes and not bitter of he past, you are ready,

Question: "Do I actually like him?"

Answer: Stop yourself while you're ahead. This could mean two things, one is you're pulling back because this is all too could to be true because you don't want to get hurt. STOP. BREATHE. REPEAT. Two, is if you are forcing feelings. You're trying very hard to see traits to like about the person and it's not naturally then stop. You're with the wrong person.

Question: "Why does he even like me?"

Answer: You are not ready to date. You are not seeing the amazing traits that he is seeing. You're not seeing how beautiful of a person you are - inside in out pure imperfect perfections in his eyes. If you cannot see how awesome you are, keep truckin' and keep searching. Self-love is a process.

KEEP CALM AND STAY PATIENT. One day the questions will stop and the mind will become balanced. Remain patient and strong. You are a strong independent person with the world to offer to someone and you'll receive one too.