I used to be "anti-tattoo" growing up. It is reasonable to not want to permanently mark your body, especially being an ever-evolving young adult. In retrospect I think I made being conservative synonymous with being fearful. But after living some of my worst fears, I have developed an open perception to adversity. I think what really sold me on getting a tattoo was when I identified a life purpose I wanted to keep no matter what happens.
As an angsty teen, I have questioned why I am worth living in this world or if I even want to be. It wasn't until I took a course in college entitled Race and Ethnicity taught by a true role model and badass, Professor Billy Miller, that I saw each individual's equal potential to bless. His passion woke me up to a fight worth battling—the fight to bring light to the world. I'm not the most avid Bible-reader but there are a few passages I have always found comforting. "Blessed are the peacemakers" is so simple and straightforward; it instructs me if all else fails, promote good.
Anybody who has a tattoo has dealt with the negative stigmas of having one. You have also probably experienced the half grimaces of those doubting your certainty. I definitely had people thinking I would regret my choice. But sometimes you just have to let yourself take ownership of how you live your life. If I don't accomplish anything else in my time alive, I just want to have brought joy and love to those around me. Any reminder to this goal keeps me going. For all the sad memories I carry, there have also been moments of pure happiness I feel grateful to possess.
All in all, I feel if you believe in something, whatever it is, do not be afraid to commit. And all those who question you are not worth the self doubt. I'd be lying if I claimed there were't people I regret meeting or decisions I regret making, but I'm so tired of worrying about the inevitable. Live your highest sense of right—get a tattoo if you want and have no regrets!
Blessed are the Peacemakers—and the tatted.
