I never thought I would, but I fell in love with a sports fan. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against sports, but watching sports is not my ideal pastime. But I do care about my boyfriend very much and he cares about sports (and God and me) very much too. In our time together, I’ve learned a few things about how to love him during sports seasons that I’d like to share with you guys. These are not guaranteed methods, but hopefully they can help you:

1. If they drive you crazy with their fanatic mindsets, don’t watch every game with them.

Yes, it’s nice to join them for some of the games, but it’s not required.

2. Constantly reassure them that it will be OK if his team doesn’t win.

Don’t be too pushy about it, but do remind them that there are more important things in life.

3. If their team is winning, celebrate with them!

It’s pretty fun and let’s be real, they can be pretty cute when they get excited about this stuff.

4. Don’t be upset every time they choose to watch a game rather than spend time with you.

If it’s consistent, bring it up in a calm manner. I’m a big proponent for balance in life, regarding all aspects.

5. Buy a shirt for their team and wear it on game days every now and then.

This is a simple, but impactful, way to show your support.

6. Take them to a game for their birthday or some special occasion.

This is sure to be a slam dunk, home run, touchdown, etc… you get the point.

7. If they want you to join them for watching a game on TV, make some snacks.

Homemade muffins are a good option.

What it really all boils down to is finding a balance, a balance between supporting his love for sports/his team and also reminding him that this is not the most important thing in life. If you can help him remember that, you’re a pretty dang good girlfriend. Good luck ladies!