Why selfish people suck the life out of you

If You Think You're Better Than Everyone Else Based On Beauty And Wealth, You're In For A Reality Check

People need to look beyond what they see on the outside!


I'm sure you can think of a few people in your life right now that are pretty…complicated. It seems that everything that they do is a big deal, or they are really picky, stuck up, sensitive, etc. Some people have the personality of being that way. But when you get to know them a little better, you may begin to realize that you aren't as bad as you thought you were about being high-strung.

In life, you meet SO many people and each of them are unique in their own way. Some are good, some are bad, and some are in-between. Each of them makes some sort of impact on what kind of person you will turn into. However, there are usually a select group of people that really make the most impact on how you act and who you turn into is the ones that are pretty 'high maintenance' people.

Some people freak out over the craziest of things like the way you dress determines how much money you have, or something like thinking that somebody is into you when really it is a good intention, nothing romantic. I feel like in this day and age society has filled out minds with all of these expectations that are near impossible for us to achieve. Society thinks that we should all be living these very luxurious lives and that everything is essentially 'all about me'. Anxiety and depression are at an all-time high thanks to these stakes being placed by society. The people that are high maintenance, in my opinion, look down their noses on others, thinking that they are better than those who aren't as pretty, wealthy, or just all-around personality that doesn't acquire to their liking.

It's sad that people have to think in such a materialistic way in order to obtain happiness. Happiness is something you find within yourself, not something you find within material things, or kicking others down in order to feel more superior than others.

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10 Bible Verses for Self Esteem

Sometimes you need to search for inner strength and find your own self worth.

We all get those days that we just don't feel good enough for anything. Everything is going wrong. For me, I go to the bible to read the words of God. His personal dialog for us is filled with encouragement, hope, and lessons we can learn from. Here are my top ten verses that are uplifting and impacting when at the lowest of lows:

1. Philippians 4:13:

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

2. Psalm 46:5

God is within her, she will not fall.

3. Proverbs 31:25

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

4. Psalm 28:76

The Lord is my strength and my shield.

5. 1 Corinthians 25:10

By the grace of God, I am what I am.

6. Romans 5:8

I loved you at your darkest.

7. Psalm 62:5-6

Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on Him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.

8. 2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.

9. 1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

10. 2 Chronicles 20:15

The battle is not ours, but God's.

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To The Brave Souls Who Are Facing Anxiety

Your journey might be difficult, but you will overcome this.


I know that feeling that you have deep in your chest.

The one you constantly try to push away, just for those few extra minutes of happiness.

I know that deep fear you feel inside as you feel all of your anxieties creep up on you with a vengeance.

The overwhelming pain caused by some unknown factor.

Some days are better than others and you can go about your business as usual.

But others are so difficult that each time you might not know how you could possibly make it through.

But you do, and you keep fighting this seemingly endless cycle.

Half of the time, you might not even be sure what is causing all of these horrible feelings that you're having.

The smallest, insignificant things might set you off and send you hurtling into the next panic attack.

I know the pain you feel each time your brain forces you to go emotionally numb trying to fight the sadness and fear you feel inside.

I understand the overwhelming feeling of well...not feeling.

It seems like your mind just runs in a continuous circle.






And then it starts right back over again.

Each and every time you reach the terrible numbness, you think that the feeling can never get worse.

And sometimes it does.

It's so difficult in this society, where the discussion of mental illness is so taboo, to reach out for help.

But it's something you NEED to do, especially if you ever want to get better.

Seeking professional help can be sooo scary, but in the end, it helps.

You never know what could be the source of all of the feelings of fear and sadness you're having.

You could be able to solve the issue with therapy, with having someone to talk to.

Or you could have a chemical imbalance in your brain, which is totally fixable!

Honestly, reaching out is the hardest part.

Everything after that is just another step closer to better days.

Don't ever give up on yourself.

Be strong and believe in yourself.

Your anxiety doesn't define who you are.

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