Many of us have that one person who walked away, but don't confuse the one who walked away with the one who got away. They're two totally different things. As much as we don't want to admit it, it's true. The person who really wanted to be with you wouldn't have walked away from the relationship, and you know it. You can deny, deny, deny that this person hurt you but you know it's true.

Not everyone has the same heart as you. Not everyone is worth your love, or worse, your pain.

You can make excuses and run from the truth, but in the end, the only person that hurts about the situation is you.

There's going to be that one person who we would do anything to change our fate with, but at the end of the day we can't. It hurts, and it hurts so much we feel like we can't stand it for another second — like we can't breathe without this person in our life — but we have to forget that feeling and move on from them. No matter how much we try and convince ourselves that things were supposed to be different, the person we're sitting around crying ourselves to sleep over has already moved on. Without us.

Yes, it is one of the worst feelings in the world when the person you feel so strongly for wakes up and decides they just simply do not love you anymore, but unfortunately, that's what happens quite often. And, that's life. At the end of the day, you deserve someone so much better. You deserve someone who will fight for you — fight to be with you — as much as you fight for him or her.

But until you do find that special person who will love you with everything he or she has, you have to try and love yourself. Love yourself enough to move on, but most importantly, love yourself enough to know deep down that you do deserve better. It's probably one of the hardest things in this world to do, but if you don't practice self-love, you'll continue on the vicious cycle of obsession and depression over someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore.

It sucks, and I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't, but in the end you'll come out a stronger person for it. He/she doesn't deserve your love. Stop chasing and turn your attention inward. Your future self thanks you for it.