How Social Media Is Shaping Our Perceptions

How Social Media Is Shaping Our Perceptions

Life and worth are measured by likes.

Instagram. Snapchat. Twitter. Facebook.

All of these things are revolutionary discoveries and inventions. Everyone has always been secretly dying to see what their friends and family (or that random person in your English class) do in their free time. Social media has become a driving force in our society since Mark Zuckerberg created Facebook. Everything seemed to fall in place when people began to update us with pictures and statuses showing us how they are living their life.

I remember when I was in middle school Facebook was the thing to have. Updating your profile picture was a big deal. People are going to deny it but it was a pretty big deal. When a person hit "like" on that new picture of you without your braces on, it sent shockwaves up your spin and immediately gave you a boost of confidence. Life was measured on how many likes you got on Facebook or how many friends you had. And nowadays this sad truth has unfortunately gotten a lot worse.

With Instagram, twitter and snapchat everyone is constantly putting things out there that they want people to see. Everything that I post on my Instagram or my snapchat stories are things that I want everyone else to see me doing. Obviously I am not going to post a selfie of me crying my eyes out after a funeral because I don't want people to see that side of me. Social media has made it easier for people to create the perception that people are living better lives then they actually are. No one wants you to see the hard parts or the true parts. Everyone cares about the likes and the shares because for just a second those 100 likes on Instagram distract you from your reality and make you feel just a little bit better. I'm not gonna lie it's a huge confidence booster when a hot guy likes my Instagram picture.

The truth is there is always something else going on in someone's life that they don't post on their profile. Social media has become away for people to manipulate their image and status, instead of leaving it up to society to decide. Society has always created stereotypes and categories for people to some how try and fit themselves into. I think that people are always searching for their identity because they need to figure out where they fit in life. Social media makes it easier for an individual to create the perception that they are what their profile is, and that they have as many friends in real life as they do on Facebook. The reality is that you don't know who a person really is until you actually get to know them. We are not just a compilation of likes, statuses, and followers. We are actual human beings with real life feelings. Social media is drowning our realities in false friends and confidence. Don't get me wrong I love my Instagram and Snapchat, but I think there is something to say about a society run on false perceptions.

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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10 Things Every College Girl Loses On A Daily Basis, In Addition To Her Mind, Of Course

I always say that I would lose my head if it was not attached to my body. Here are the other 10 things that I ALWAYS lose, besides my head.



1. Socks

I can never find matches to my socks. No matter how hard I try, I lose one sock out of the pair. If I had a dollar for each sock that I have lost, I would have millions of dollars. At this point, I'm wondering if my washing machine is eating my socks....

2. Bobby Pins

I lose almost every single Bobby pin. I could buy a pack tomorrow and somehow by the end of the week, I wouldn't have any left.

3. Hair Bows

If I don't need a hair bow, I can find twenty of them. If I do need a hair bow, I can not find any. The worst part about losing hair bows is when hair is completely done and all I need to do is secure my hair, and then hair bows in sight.

4. Chapstick

I buy a chapstick almost every time I go to the store. Somehow, they just grow legs and walk away.

5. Car Keys

I lose my keys at least three times on a daily basis. I am pretty sure I lose them more than anything.

***One time, I was cleaning out my car after work one night. I threw the trash away in the outside trash can by my car. The next morning, I couldn't find my keys ANYWHERE. I was going crazy. My mom was helping me look for them and she checks the trash can...guess what she finds? My keys.***

6. Phone

I always sit my phone down and forget where I put it. I am always running around the house looking like a crazy person trying to find my phone.

***My Apple Watch saves me a lot of trouble. It has a push notification that rings my phone and tells me exactly where it is at. If I did not have that notification, I would probably be looking for my phone right now.***

7. Glasses

I take my glasses off at night and lay them beside me in the bed. Sometimes I forget to put them up and I sleep with my glasses in the bed. Or when I wake up in the morning, I'm blind, so I can never see to find my glasses anyways.

8. Remote

My remote is a lot like my glasses. I throw it down beside me in the bed. However, when I go to use it, I can never find it. Somehow, it gets to the end of the bed or somewhere completely different than where I laid it down at. I spend the whole commercial break looking for the remote.

9. Phone Charger/ Block

I always keep a charger in my car and in my room (dorm & home). When I leave the dorm and take my charger home, I can never find it. Or when I take the charger back to the dorm from home, I can never find it. I have somehow gotten better...a little better... throughout the years. The real struggle is trying to find a block. My family and I lose every block in the house. It is a miracle we even have charge on our phones most of the time.

10. Money

I could put cash in my wallet or my pockets and it will just magically disappear. I know what you are thinking...I spent it (especially if you are my mom or boyfriend). But really I did not, I just lose the money. I will put up money for a special occasion and not even remember where I put it.

Like I said before, I would lose my head if it was not attached to my body. Anyone who has met me knows that. Do you lose any of these things? Or is it just me?

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