How many of us can actually say that we are confident with who we are? Some seem to hold true confidence..but do they have any insecurities at all? The vast majority of the earth's population is very insecure and has low self esteem. But the vast majority of the earth's population is very confident as well. We are both, somewhere in between on the scale I guess you could say. But how many of us are TRULY confident about ourselves? Here are a few signs that I believe in, in truly being confident.

1. Looking in the Mirror:

Are you happy with what you see? Do you always second guess your hair style or your outfit for the day? Are you scared to walk out of the house? Do you change your outfit? Are you instantly judging your appearance? Then, you my friend, are not truly confident in yourself. But, this can change.

2. Do you compare yourself to others:

Comparing yourself to your friends, or even just people around you is not being confident at all. What I learned is, there will always be someone prettier, more attractive than you. Someone will always be slimmer, more fit than you. But it's YOU who chooses to let that bring you down. Own yourself and how you look, otherwise you will never succeed.

3. Being Independent:

Being independent from the outside world is always a confidence booster. Being assertive and stepping out of your comfort zone helps. I know from personal experience, doing things that you wouldn't normally do, helps you understand your worth. Talking and meeting people that you never thought you would meet, stepping up to the plate and standing up for yourself and your beliefs and letting others know how you feel are all part of being independent. So, if you are independent, then you're confident as well.

4. Constant Envy:

Do you envy others? Envy is obviously a sign that you do not have very much confidence in yourself. Wanting what others have, how they look, etc, is not good for yourself. Being able to look at someone and not be jealous? Now that's impossible. But constant envy is not healthy.

5. Accepting compliments, but also accepting criticism:

Being able to accept compliments is a huge deal. Not most of us can accept a compliment without feeling lower about themselves. But, being able to accept criticism is just as big of a deal. if you can not accept any criticism without feeling some type of way, then you can not better yourself.

Through my journey and becoming more confident with myself, these key points have helped me along the way. I hope it can help you too!