Side Hoes Do Not Get The Right to Be Jealous When Someone New Comes Along
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Side Hoes Do Not Get The Right to Be Jealous When Someone New Comes Along

That is why you are just a side piece and nothing more.

Side Hoes Do Not Get The Right to Be Jealous When Someone New Comes Along

College is the time to make mistakes, have sex, drink more than your body weight & meet new people... while catching a degree. Freshman year I spoke to very few people and had no interest in making new friends. I did not want to join any clubs/ organizations, meet new faces, go out and drink or step out of my comfort zone - I was okay with being a nobody. It was not until Sophomore year when I decided to try new things & that involved having casual hookups. I made an account on Tinder and found myself having more side pieces than I expected.

There was, and is, nothing wrong with having a booty call. I have more than one because each piece has different potential. On certain days I prefer a casual encounter & then leave, but there other days when I prefer to be pounded. Not every candidate was capable of meeting the needs I would prefer that day, so I ended up having too many side pieces.

The thing about being a side piece is understanding the boundaries, the set rules. As a side piece/ side hoe, it is crucial to understand you are nothing more than someone who gets asked for sex and nudes - no dates, phone calls, hangouts... none of that. Once a side piece expects more than the casual hookups, that's when things get complicated - especially when someone with dating potential comes around.

The hoe stage does not last forever - for me, it was a year. It eventually gets old and boring. It is eventually time to settle down, and that is when a side piece will become jealous.

After a few good encounters, feelings do brew - they do, so do not lie about it. I have had crushes on many of my hoes, but they never knew/never will know. But, once you tell these boys about going on a date, meeting someone new, or wanting to end things - there tends to become resentment & jealousy.

Let me say this loud enough for the people in the back:


You do not have the right to be upset when we blow off some D for a nice date - girls have feelings, ya know? We get tired of being used, the same way we are using our hoes, so it feels nice having a date & talking about more than the next position. If you are a side piece and are seeking more than sex, then speak up about your feelings. If you wait to speak up about feelings, you have had since day one, when a new man comes around - then you just look jealous.

As a side hoe, you cannot be jealous when someone better comes along. Did you really think these hookups would last forever - I hope not. Be careful when agreeing to be nothing more than a side hoe because things can, and will, get complicated.

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