Although sometimes our lives get busy and we often forget to do things for ourselves, we need to remember that we are of the utmost importance and need to prioritize our own well-being...
In this life, nobody is ultimately going to have your best interest at heart more than you do. If you think about it, although everyone has different perspectives and opinions within this world, one factor that we all for sure have in common is that everyone is just wondering around somewhat aimlessly and trying to live a life fulfilled to their utmost and fullest potential. We all are selfishly living on this earth trying to find out whom/ what makes us happiest each day that goes by and do so without even realizing it.
With that being said, putting energy into your own self and in hand, doing things for yourself will help you grow immensely!!!! What I have personally learned throughout my own journey so far, is that being selfish is not a bad thing. We should each make it a point to take time to ourselves and do things throughout our days that help better us as people, or just make us feel all around more confident.
For example, I personally dedicate my Mondays to getting my shit together!!! I like to usually have fun with my friends on the weekends, but Mondays are my days meant for recollecting myself and keeping my week ahead organized. A typical Monday morning for me consists of waking up, going to class, coming home, putting my laundry in, cleaning my room, then going grocery shopping.
Mondays are without a doubt the roughest day of the week, but if we can dedicate them to doing things that will, in return, help us out, they end up being not so awful. We should look at Mondays as fresh starts and new beginnings, instead of dreading them.
All in all, if you're anything like me, you are aware of how important it is to instill investing into your own being; but hopefully, you now start to implement some action into your life and do so!