Why is it that everyone seems to think 2016 was so horrible? Yes, I agree, unfortunate events took place, but isn’t that inevitable for every year? People are reflecting upon all of the negative aspects such as deaths and a certain presidential election instead of all of the great things that happened to them throughout the course of the past twelve months. It is true that the end of a year is commonly a time for reflection, but it should be on the positive. I personally try to forget about all of the bad things that happened. Mistakes were made and I learned from them. At the same time, I experienced wonderful things as well and I know you did too. Wouldn’t you rather look back and smile?
This previous semester, I studied abroad in Florence, Italy. It was the most incredible experience, and I cannot wait to travel back there. I was lucky enough to visit seven countries during my four months in Europe, and I only have my parents to thank for providing me with the opportunity to do so. Many mishaps took place, but now that I’m home, I choose to mainly remember the good things about my trip. There is no point in dwelling on things that don’t matter anymore, which is why people need to stop complaining about 2016. If it’s possible to be left in the past, then leave it there. It has no business ruining your 2017.
This can go for relationships as well. I am in one, and I know that worrying about every little thing that bothers you would be disastrous. Not to get all personal and gross, but 2016 taught me what love should be. I’m so glad to have found somebody who treats me how every girl should be treated and I can call my best friend as well. Our relationship started from a mutual love for Cavalier King Charles Spaniels and it has only grown from there. Everyone claims that 2016 was full of hate, but for me it was quite the opposite. I’m not good with words in this type of way, but I really can’t thank you enough.
Compared to past years, I lost a significant amount of friends in 2016. Completely by choice, and in the end, for the better. I had to ask myself, “Why hang out with people who make you feel horrible?” Friends are supposed to build you up, not put you down. It’s never fun to view a Snapchat story or Instagram photo of your “friends” on a vacation that you weren’t invited to. I finally stood up for myself which took a huge amount of courage for me. I never like to start drama or make people feel bad, but I finally had enough. Maybe when you learn the ability to say sorry we’ll talk again, but quite frankly, I don’t give a damn.
At the end of the year, all you need to ask yourself is “Am I happy?” If so, then you’re doing something right. And if not, then you understand change needs to take place. I’m very happy with my friends, relationship, family, and lifestyle, and as long as those stay the same and I know who I am, 2017 can be just as great.
