What Being A Sales And Client Rep Is Teaching Me

What Being A Sales And Client Representative Is Teaching Me About People, Myself, And Marketing

Anyone who's worked in customer service would understand.


This summer, I'm interning at a marketing company in Raleigh. My bosses and coworkers are all really cool—they are all really passionate about helping others to progress in the business and they have all worked the exact job I'm working now, so they can empathize with me.

The work isn't glamorous by any means, but I have been learning a good deal, both about myself and about other people in general. For example, there are a lot of kinda mean people. Granted, I know that they just want to shop without being approached by me about the deals we've got going on, but I'm just trying to do my job. Even more so, I'm actually trying to save the customers money! There are so many people who just put a hand to my face before I can get more than a "Hi, how are—" out of my mouth.

That's not a huge surprise, though. Anyone who's worked in customer service will certainly understand and be able to relate. One surprising thing I've found, though, is that in the sales world, practicing indifference is key.

My bosses tell us that people don't like salespeople. That's a given. What people do like, however, are people who are willing to inform or help them. I've been told to keep a "This is mine to give, not yours to take" type of mindset, and that people want what they can't have. Think about it: if someone nonchalantly informed you that you could be saving around $20 a month on your cable bill but wasn't desperately trying to get you to pull the switch, wouldn't you be much more inclined to do it?

People like making their own decisions. As a sales representative, I've got to learn how to control the conversation with my customer while also letting them decide what they would like to do. We don't operate on pushy, just on the facts. I simply inform my customers of what they're able to get, if and how it would be a good deal for them, and then I let them make the final call. It's a lot harder than it sounds, but it's actually kinda fun to put into practice.

Overall, I've learned that people like control. The customers like to make decisions, sales reps like to (and should try to) control the conversation, and people want what they can't have because when they don't have it, it's out of their control. How about that?

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11 Things You'd Only Understand If You're Spending Your Summer Making Money

"I can't, I have work."

There are two types of people in this world, those who will actually get to enjoy their summer, and those who will be trapped in the four walls of whatever place is giving them a paycheck.

If you relate more closely with the latter, here's some things you've definitely caught yourself doing/saying

1. "I can't, I have work."

This is your famous line until everyone gets tired of inviting you places because they already know what you're going to say

2. And if you're not at work you're either too tired to do anything after work

. . . or going to bed early to prepare for tomorrows shift

3. Having major FOMO when you're at work

Those beach Instagram posts get you every time, it's starting to feel like a personal attack

4. Somehow having off the only day there's nothing going on

why is it that on the rare chance you have off no one's around

5. Or if you have off you have a million errands

sometimes even days off aren't really days off

6. Wishing you actually had to work on days off

because you'd rather be making money than sitting around staring at the ceiling

7. You want to go shopping with all the money your making but all you wear is work clothes

(and pajamas) so what's the point!!!!

8. You don't get excited about Fridays

whats it matter! it's not a weekend if you're working!

9. You don't get the true joy of summer either

no tan for you, no beach trips for you, and absolutely no frozen margaritas for you!!

10. You feel like your bank account should have a much larger number than it does

It doesn't make sense that all you do is work but for some reason you're still not nearly as rich as you feel you should be

11. You run on coffee

But then again, maybe all that money is being spent on the coffee you need to survive each work day.....

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A 6 Step Guide On How To Treat Retail Employees With Respect, For Beginners

6 simple steps - with pictures!


I've been working in retail for a few months, and in customer service for over five years, to finance my college education and my young life. In those five years, I've been regularly talked down to, belittled, and even falsely accused of pushing a child. Most customers are great, but the rude ones, unfortunately, are the ones that stick out when I think about my customer service experience thus far. If you're someone who has spent your adult life thus far putting down retail employees for no reason, this detailed guide is for you!

1. Don’t talk down to us.


To you, we may seem like low lives with no ambition, but we're trying to make a living just like you! We do not deserve to be spoken to like children, so instead try speaking to us like we're a friend. At the least, a semi-friendly tone will make us more inclined to help you.

2. If you need a stock check, be patient and try not to send us more than once.


Stock checks are difficult. There are racks upon racks of clothes to walk through before finding the right one, and sometimes even a ladder is required. At the store I'm currently working, our stock is on an entirely different floor of the building. We're happy to help you find your size but if we take a while, please don't blame us.

3. Don’t blow up on us when we try to sell you things - you’re in a store after all.


We don't like bugging you about credit cards and sales just as much as you don't like hearing about them. But we have sales goals to meet and there's no use in getting angry at us for something that's simply part of our job. Anyways - you're in a store, where you came to potentially buy things, so why not hear about ways to save your money?

4. We (nor our managers) control the prices.


This seems like a given, but I've found that a lot of people forget this widely-known fact. Yes, I know it's a little ridiculous to pay $80 for a shirt, but it's not my fault and you chose to come in and shop in this particular store. It's not like someone is forcing you to spend your money. If you want cheaper clothing, there are endless options these days. The world is your oyster.

5. Please don’t ask for our manager unless you have a ridiculously complicated shopping emergency, or were just punched in the face.


Retail managers have a tough job: not only do they have to make sure sales goals are met and that the store is running smoothly, but any problems that arise are their responsibility. In addition to the regular paperwork and such that managers have to take care of.

That being said, please don't ask for our manager because you don't believe us when we said we're out of a color or style. Sales associates will not lie to you, and our jobs basically exist solely for your convenience and questions, so please utilize us..

6. Whatever problems you currently are facing in your life, are not our fault.


And we do not get paid to be your punching bag. We all have our own issues and we all have days where we don't feel like talking to people. If you're in our store and it's one of those days, you can politely reject our help and we'll leave you alone.

A nasty attitude toward us is not going to make you feel any better; if anything it will make us less likely to want to help you in the future. Yes, we recognize the people who come in regularly. And we remember which ones did not show us respect in the past.

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