There's not a lot that can make me upset or jealous in my relationship. I'm one of the few lucky people who has found someone who is just as committed to our relationship as I am. I trust my partner to tell me the truth and in return, I do the same. We do not hide things from each other. We do not lie to each other. We understand and accept each other for who we are. We work on ourselves every day to be better for our partner. Sure, there are bumps in the road, no relationship is perfect. But it is how we manage those bumps that decide the fate of our relationship.

So, my only question for the girl who continuously flirts, hits on, and outright throws herself at my boyfriend, is, why? Do you not respect the girl code? Do you think he's as sleazy as you and would cheat on me even though I'm all he ever talks about? Do you not care how trashy you make yourself look? Do you not care about your reputation? Where is your respect for ME? Where is your respect for YOURSELF?

There is someone out there for everyone, and if you set your eyes on someone who is already in a relationship and shows zero interest in you, they are not your one. Eventually, one day, I hope you do find someone who shows you the love and respect you so desperately crave. I hope someone shows you what true love looks like, and that you don't have to sell yourself so short as to be someone's hookup or side piece. I hope one day you have someone who makes you just as happy as my boyfriend makes me, and I hope one day you realize just how shitty of a person you were to someone you didn't even know.

Because truthfully, what you did, was utterly and completely selfish and shitty. I only pray when you find someone who makes your world complete, that they don't do to you what you tried to get my boyfriend to do to me. I hope you find someone as loyal as my boyfriend; someone who tells you EVERYTHING, and I mean everything.

You may not think you did anything wrong. You may not even bat an eye or give it a second thought. But I do. I think about you and the situation often. I won't harass you on Facebook or show up to your work like some girls would do. But just know, I'm watching. I'm listening. I'm hearing everything my boyfriend tells me. I wish you well, but don't think you'll walk away scotch-free the next time you try to mess with something that isn't yours.