You've probably heard it said that no one can deny the pull of a new relationship; the excitement, the novelty, the possibility. People rave about how great the 'honeymoon phase' of dating is, and how relationships that continue on for months or years get boring. I am here to tell you that is false. Yes, new relationships are fun, but nothing is better than a boy you've stuck with for a while. Here's why.
1. Date nights are easy
Let's face it: you're tired, he's tired, screw formality; you can order a pizza and watch Stranger Things in your pajamas all night without feeling like you aren't being fancy enough. As long as you ordered the extra cheese half sausage pizza you know he loves, he'll be happy.
2. Gift giving is so. much. easier.
You know his shoe size, his favorite candy, what tchotchke he likes, and most importantly, what he already owns. Plus, he knows you just as well, so you don't have to worry about getting an itchy sweater or a very thoughtful (but very useless) scented candle. But if he does buy you a scented candle, it's because he knows you love the smell of pine trees wafting through the house.
3. He's seen you at your worst
Greasy hair, messy room, ridiculous outfit, sick as a dog, just got your wisdom teeth out... You name it, he has seen it, and he's been there for you, sans judgement. You don't need to doll yourself up when he comes over, he thinks you're beautiful in just your sweats. Plus, you get to see him in casual clothes so you can steal his sweatshirt(s) #datingperks
4. You made it past the deep stuff
You know each others' insecurities, what you think about in the middle of the night, your hopes and dreams, your biggest fears. You've had the Big Fight and came out stronger on the other side. You've had those nights of admissions and tears, and you learned you can lean on each other always. There are no more awkward silences; you can be completely open around one another. Nothing is more precious than the deep trust you have found in each other.
5. Two words: better sex
You don't have to worry that you didn't shave, and you know he won't give you crap about wearing a condom. You know what he likes in bed and what he doesn't, and vice versa. Neither of you have to worry about being taken advantage of, or suffering through those painful first-time-together questions.
6. You know you love him
By far the best part of a long-term guy. He's for real, he's for you, he's forever. You're certain that you love him, and he loves you right back.
