We have all probably experienced a bad breakup at one point in our life. From experience, I can tell you one thing: getting out of a toxic relationship will only make you a much stronger and wiser person at the end of it all. I found the best way to cope and move on with life was to find inspiration through other people's words. People who have been in the same situation always know how to put your exact feelings into words you aren't strong enough yet to say. So I decided to share with you quotes from Khloe Kardashian that got me through one of the hardest times in my life. I hope they can help you too.
"We don't need anybody's approval to be happy in life. It's on you to validate and accept your version of happiness."
You cannot depend on someone else to make you happy. Investing your trust in someone else to completely fulfill your happiness will only put someone else in complete control over your emotions and life.
"You choose your life. Don't let anyone else decide for you. We are no victims to life. No prisoners. But we do become victims and prisoners to the people we choose to surround ourselves with."
If the person you decide to let into your life is holding you from being in control of your own life you will never see the full potential of what your life could be. Life is too short to settle for living it to someone else's expectations and under someone else's shadow.
"We tend to become content, passive and blind within our relationships. Out of comfort and possibly fear. The unknown will leave you stuck in a bad situation: choosing comfort over your own happiness."
You cannot allow yourself to get stuck in a relationship solely because you are used to having that person around. You can never allow yourself to become comfortable with being unhappy. It takes a strong person to choose to pursue a happy life by leaving a comfortable relationship that no longer makes them happy behind.
"Today's wisdom was yesterday's pain. Tomorrow's happiness is today's bravery. Never be fearful of letting go, for sometimes holding on can damage you deeper."
Sometimes you need to be brave enough to realize that living with a person that no longer makes you feel good or positive about yourself is no way to live life. When your happiness is at stake you need to be brave enough to tell yourself that enough is enough. Letting go of that negative space in your life will only free up more space for a positive person to enter.
"There's a huge difference between giving up and letting go. Giving up means you are selling yourself short. Letting go means freeing yourself from something that is no longer beneficial to your personal growth. Giving up is self-defeat. Letting go is self-love. "
You owe it to yourself to let go of anything that does not serve as valuable or rewarding to your own life. If you never let go of someone that brings you down you can't expect to achieve a happiness you deserve. No matter how hard it may seem, sometimes we have to be selfish and choose our happiness over living with someone that leaves you miserable in your own life.
"Remove toxic people and toxic mindsets from your life so that you can make room for relationships and ideas that are conducive to your happiness and ever evolving personal expansion. "
A toxic person is anyone that comes into your life, does not serve as a positive impact on your happiness, and tries to manipulate your emotions and your own life. No one like that deserves a spot by your side, and the only way to open up that spot for someone else to enter is to remove that toxic person for good.
"Not everyone who started with you will finish with you. Be ok with that."
We live and we learn who is meant to stay in your life forever and who is not. The only ones that deserve that spot in your life are the ones that inspire, motivate, and support you through all of the good and bad in your life.
