Many times, we let the opinions of others dictate our words and actions. It can even come to a point where we question our outfit choices based on what someone else may say or think. In situations as such, it all starts with making little sacrifices for those we truly care about, and eventually we begin to let the opinions of others control our happiness. Although it can lift our spirits and feel good to please others, we get so carried away with making them happy that we forget about our own feelings and emotions in the process.

The goal in life is to have a balance with everything that we do. Contrary to popular belief, it is possible to please others and yourself at the same time by striking the perfect harmony among selfishness and self-love. We should not let anyone else's opinion have the ability to affect our personal happiness. Often, we take the opinions of friends, family and even strangers to heart, while allowing those thoughts to change a little part of who we really are in fear of someone else not agreeing with what makes us happy.

The next time you find yourself unhappy due to the opinion or action of someone else, sit back and realize that they do not have that kind of power over you and that you control your own happiness. Understand that most people, outside of family, only do or say things in which benefit themselves, so why not do the same?

Everyone should remember to enjoy the little things and cherish all that brings us joy and happiness, while not letting the judgement of others change how we feel. If you love something,don't be afraid to show it and express yourself just in fear of not fitting in or being seen as weird. It's okay, and even good to be different while cherishing your quirks, likes and dislikes. There is no need to conform to the standards of others when we are all our own person with specific interests.

In the process of individuals conforming to society's standards rather than their personal standards, individuality begins to depreciate and become obsolete. So stand strong with your beliefs, passions and things in which bring joy to your life, and do not let anyone else change you in the slightest. Appreciate being different and all of your quirkiness and remember that no one else can be a better you.