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Actually, You ARE A Psycho Girlfriend If You Keep Crazy Tabs On Your Boyfriend 24/7

There is no reason to have to keep tabs on your boyfriend every single hour of the day.

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Actually, You ARE A Psycho Girlfriend If You Keep Crazy Tabs On Your Boyfriend 24/7
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One of the most important things in a relationship is trust. In this day and age, a lot of people are finding it harder and harder to find a relationship with said trust.

Nowadays, you hear more and more about girls being psycho (according to men) by doing specific actions that can seem to be overwhelming or really just plain weird, so, I'll just say this:

If you feel the need to check your boyfriend's location when he isn't texting you back, you need to tone down your psycho meter.

Checking to see if they're alive by checking their location is one thing, but checking it solely because they aren't texting you back is just so odd to me.

Now, OK, having your boyfriend have his read receipts on is fine and I say that because nobody likes to feel ignored, so it's a nice feature to have but...

How insecure are you in your relationship where you feel the need to look at your boyfriend's location so many times in 1 day? If your boyfriend can't text you every so often just to tell you he's OK, that's part of the problem. It's SO unnecessary to feel like you have to keep tabs on where your boyfriend is almost every second of the day.

Do you truly think that your boyfriend will be dead in a ditch somewhere every day? Are you THAT paranoid about him dying?

And, don't get me wrong, I know a lot of people share their locations with their boyfriend/girlfriend because they travel, but, to me, that's a different story because they're maybe halfway across the country and you'd like to know where they are, but if your boyfriend is at his friend's house and you constantly check his location, what does that say about you? Does it scream insecurity to you like it does to me and probably a bunch of other people?

My point is, you don't need to check your boyfriend's location every hour. That'll just make you stress 100x more. So, if your boyfriend isn't texting you back, go watch Netflix. Go take a bath. Go put on a face mask. Hell, take a nap if you really want to.

It's OK if he didn't text you back. I can guarantee you that he isn't dead in a ditch somewhere.

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