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There's Nothing Wrong With Planning Your Dream Wedding Even If You're Not "Ready" To Get Married

A girl can dream and no one can take that away from her.

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There's Nothing Wrong With Planning Your Dream Wedding Even If You're Not "Ready" To Get Married
Felix Russell-Saw

It is said that a girl will start planning their wedding day, as soon as they learn what a wedding is. At such a young age, you might not have had the ability to look up ideas on the internet but that never mattered, it was your imagination that did all of the work.

The wedding planning started when you took one of your dolls and put them in a wedding dress or something that looked similar enough. After the dress was on, you picked the shoes that fit just right and even created a dream hairstyle. You might have been doing all of this planning in your living room or bedroom, but that didn't matter because you could easily move the whole wedding into a nicer venue, such as the backyard. All of the other toys would not be forgotten about, they would be the wedding guests. Even though the guests didn't always have chairs, and some of them only had the ability to stand, that was perfectly fine.

After setting everything up and looking at your wedding, all you could do was smile. Your imagination and hard work had just designed about the neatest thing you had ever seen. One day you wanted your wedding to look just like that, or even better.

As the years go on, instead of putting a wedding dress on your dolls and writing silly invitations on napkins, actual weddings start to happen and real invitations are sent through the mail. After attending a wedding yourself, the ideas for your dream wedding get bigger and better. Pinterest tends to become the number one spot to pin any of your ideas and to look at other peoples ideas or the dream weddings they had put on themselves.

While roaming through thousands of wedding themed boards and continuously pinning new things, there's a tendency to sit back and think to yourself, why am I planning a wedding when I am not even engaged or ready to get married. The answer is, if you could start planning a wedding when you truly didn't know what a wedding consisted of at a young age, nothing should stop you from planning your dream wedding out now.

There will never be a limit on how many bridesmaids dresses you like, the thousands of hairstyles, wedding themes, and you can even pin what you want your future husband to look like when he stands at the altar. Out of everything, it is understandable to have hundreds of ring and dress options, just in case some of the designs stop being made or go out of style by the time you're set to go.

Tying the knot is known to be the most important day of your life. A wedding might not be right around the corner in your life but that doesn't mean anything should stop you from saving pages from magazines or pinning things that could make your dream wedding plans come true.

You will be the most prepared bride there ever was when the time comes.

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