I know what you're thinking: Is she crazy? Well, quite frankly, yes I am. However, that isn't relevant to this article.

I have a Wedding/Future board on Pinterest like many other girls. I've thought about themes for my wedding. I've looked at gorgeous dresses and the perfect bridesmaid gowns to go along with it. I've even thought about color schemes. As I get older and more aware of how expensive life is, I have to admit that the idea of a wedding is less appealing.

I know I am not going to get married anytime soon, but that doesn't mean I can't think about it. I mean, weddings are ridiculously expensive. The dress, decorations, venue, bridesmaid dresses, tuxes, reception, and so much more just shows up in my head as money signs.

I feel like we live in a generation where it's almost "required" to have a wedding. The first thing people ask after you get engaged is usually, "When is the wedding?" I know there are many people who would love to watch me walk down the aisle, but at the end of the day they're not the ones who would be paying for it. Don't get me wrong, weddings are a wonderful thing. I just don't think they're right for everyone.

Growing up, I never really fantasized over having a "dream wedding". It just wasn't me. Some girls know what style dress they want and their perfect venue before they even start dating. Now, as a college student who's in a relationship I see the benefits of using the money that would have been used on a wedding for other things. For example, that money could be used for an amazing honeymoon, a down payment on a house, or both. Now that sounds a lot nicer to me than a wedding and reception that lasts 2-3 hours and costs an outrageous amount.

Not only is money an issue, but you have to make sure not to leave anyone out so their feelings won't be hurt. If you say you want a small wedding you're kind of lying to yourself because once you start writing invitations, you'll realize you have a lot more family and friends than you initially thought. Also keep in mind that if you forget somebody it can create drama, and no one wants to deal with that.

So there you have it folks, a college girl who doesn't think she wants a wedding. My reasons are valid and I'm sure as I get older it will only make more sense (financially) to not have a wedding ceremony.

Skip the wedding, elope and go on a rocking honeymoon? Sounds good to me!