To The All The Men That Let Women Down, From One Pissed Off Girl

To The All The Men That Let Women Down, From One Pissed Off Girl

I'm sick of waiting. I'm tired of your bullshit and lies.

This one is to all the men that have let their women down and to all the other girls who are fed up with their bullshit.

I'm so sick of being told something then having a man let me down or lie to my fucking face. I'm sick of waiting. I'm tired of your bullshit and lies. You can either man up or sit the fuck down, so I can see the guy behind you. And honey, let's face it...there's always a guy behind you, whether you know it or not. I'm so tired of hearing, "But baby...I didn't mean to hurt you." Well, obviously you fucking did.

I'm angry lately. I'm angry that you can be perfect 95% of the time, then fuck up so badly the other 5%. I'm angry that this must be how your ex felt...being betrayed and tricked again and again. That this is how she must've felt when I came along and I sympathize with that, which pisses me off too. Did you give her hope, like you gave it to me? Only to crush it and throw her and my hope away, like a piece of trash.

I'm angry that everyone seems to be right about you. They told me how this would go and I have no one to blame but myself.

I'm angry that I hate you on some level. I hate you so much that I go from being hurt to feeling literally nothing for you. And that scares me. Because I planned on spending my life with you. I planned on so much with you and you planned on nothing with me. I hate you with every fiber of my being and yet, I can't tear myself away from you. I must be a masochist. There is no other alternative explanation.

I'm angry that she won a battle, even if it finally got you to move forward. I'm angry that I wasn't enough to cause this change, but rather it was her. It always centers around her. She's the "mother of your children," I fucking get it, but I'm supposedly your future, but I get left in the past. Don't I matter? Why is it always me you choose to hurt and leave behind? I'm angry that you always leave me behind. I'm angry for being so pathetic that I still feel pain when you leave me behind.

I'm angry that you are with her right now and not me. I'm angry and you both can go fuck off because I'm sick of it.

I'm angry that you have me so confused over my own feelings, that it's almost like being back with my ex, who took so much from me. Things I didn't want to give.

I'm angry I had sex with you and that I loved you, when you were lying to me for three months. I'm so angry because I feel used. Ironic, isn't it? I'm the one who was used and left, when I thought it'd be her.

But you know what causes me the most anger? The fact that despite everything you've done and all the pain you caused me, I still love you. I feel pure rage at how you fucked me over, but my heart still calls for you. It still wants you, even when I beg for it to let go. Even when I'm trying so hard to stop loving you because I can't take this fucked up situation anymore.

I may have gotten you to finally leave, but I lost a part of myself in all of this. I lost a piece of my love, my respect, and trust for you.

I think I may have lost my heart because I feel no heartbeat, my pulse is gone. I don't really feel anything anymore. And honestly, I'm not even sure if I feel anger...because I expected this.

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21 Funniest Pick-Up Lines I've Ever Heard

Are you my appendix? Because I don't understand how you work, but this feeling in my stomach makes me want to take you out.

With Valentine's Day behind us, I spent the day pondering (and researching) some of the greatest pickup lines I've ever heard. I wondered if I could compile a master list and, with a little help from some friends, I did it. Here's what we came up with the 21 funniest pickup lines I have ever heard:

1. "Do you have Acne? Because I want to get Proactive with you."

My best friend/roommate Courtney thought of this and I cried. All credit to her. (She's single, so hit her up.)

2. "Are you my appendix? Because I don't understand how you work, but this feeling in my stomach makes me want to take you out."

Anatomical pick-up lines for the Grey's Anatomy fan in your life.

3. "How much does a polar bear weigh? [How much?] Enough to break the ice....Hi, I'm ___."

For when you just need to find a way to say hello.

4. (Hold out hand) "Would you hold this for me while I go for a walk?"

Simple. Direct. Useful for the cute dog-walker you always see walking at the park.

5. "Is your father Little Caesar? 'Cause you look Hot n' Ready."

Everyone loves pizza.

6. "If you were a transformer, you'd be a hot-bot, and your name would be Optimus Fine."

...Get it?

7. Check the label on their shirt. When they say, "What are you doing?" You say, "Just checking to see if you were made in heaven."

Even if it says "100% cotton," just roll with it.

8. "Can you hold on one second? I have to show you the prettiest girl I've ever seen." (Hold up front-facing camera on phone.)

Someone try this and tell me if it works.

9. "Girl, you're like Mastercard.....priceless."

Keeping it classy.

10. "My friends bet me that I wouldn't start a conversation with the most beautiful girl here. Want to go buy some dinner with their money?"

Makings of a first date 101.

11. "You look familiar. Did we have class together? I could've sworn we had chemistry."

This works even if you're not in a Chem class.

12. *In a museum*. "Hi, I'm ____. I would shake your hand, but that sign says not to touch the masterpieces."

Monet ain't got nothing on you, babe.

13. "Do you have 11 protons? Because you're sodium fine."

Likely to be most effective if the person is a science-lover.

14. "If you were a triangle, you'd be acute one."

Buh-dum tisssss.

15. "Is your name Wifi? Because I'm feeling a strong connection."


16. "There's 21 letters in the alphabet, right? Oh...never mind, I missed u r a qt."

Now I know my ABC's.

17. "On a scale of 1-10, you're a 9. And I'm the 1 you need."

Keep 'em coming.

18. "Are you Physics 212?" [No...] "Well you're something I just couldn't pass."

Particularly useful if you failed a few classes (we won't judge).

19. "Is your face from McDonald's? Because I'm lovin' it."


20. "Do you mind if I walk you home? My mom always told me to follow my dreams."

Mama's boys unite.

21. "You remind me of chapstick....You're the balm."

I gagged a little reading this the first time.

If you happen to try any of these, report back on how they work. Happy Valentine's Day to all.

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The Do's And Don'ts Of Tinder

The official guidelines to the dating app

Ladies and gentleman, I bring to you the official Tinder Do's and Don'ts. Listen up.

Don't just say "hey" or "what's up"

This is Tinder. Don't be boring. It is unlikely you are going to get a response.

Do message first with a cheesy pick up line

Just innocent and funny. Nothing creepy or sexual. And don't be afraid to message first.

Don't only have one picture

Not only blurry group photos. Not only shirtless pics. Have variety!

Do send gifs

Gifs are fun and casual and always lighten the mood!

Don't have a lame bio

Don't to be too serious. Don't be too weird. Don't leave it blank.

Do have pictures with puppies

Nobody swipes left on a puppy. Also, pictures with your little niece will increase your swipes.

Don't ask for phone number right away

She barely knows you. She is going to leave you on seen.

Do use quotes from The Office

She will fall in love.

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