Decades ago, younger generations commonly went on dates to drive-in movies, dinners, ice cream, etc. Back in those days, prices were definitely cheaper than they are now. Today, dates consist of dinner, a movie, mini golf, double dates, and really anything else that you can think of.

But should the male be paying for all of these adventures?

Yes, I'm young and haven't really experienced a lot of the dating world, but that doesn't mean I don't know what I'm talking about.

I see a lot of debates on social media about who should pay on dates, especially first dates. Well, here's how I see it.

The beginnings of a relationship, to me, are a gray area. That can be handled however the two want. Once a relationship has been established, though, this does not mean the male should now be basically supporting the female. That's not how a relationship should go.

Men should not always be expected to pay.

If your man wants to spoil you, that is his business.If he thinks you deserve flowers or presents every day, more power to him.However, you shouldn't be asking your man to take you to all these expensive restaurants, places and name off all these name brand things you want him to buy for you. And if you and he go out all the time, you shouldn't just assume he is going to pay for everything every single time.

Ladies, don't expect your man to support you as if you are his child.

Relationships are 50/50. You should not expect him to buy you everything you want and ask for, and he shouldn't have to pay for every meal and outing. That's just not fair to ask of him.

I know money is a struggle sometimes, so you might say well "I'm on a budget." There are alternatives though.

Invite him over, cook, watch a movie or play board games. There are so many things to do that don't have to involve going out or spending lots of money, but he shouldn't be in charge of everything.

Just remember ladies, your man deserves to be given things just as much as you do.