Love Yourself The Way Kanye Loves Kanye

Love Yourself The Way Kanye Loves Kanye

Have an undeniable belief in yourself.
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Everybody lacks confidence. Most of the time we go through life feeling like our potential is anonymous. We desperately want people to see our value and what we have to offer, and, fact of the matter is, most of the time they don’t. We will go through life wondering why we never got that validation--that others believe in us--and that can weigh heavy on our confidence. This lack of belief from others will cause us to lose our own confidence.

We can’t go through life doubting our ability, or we will never be able to fulfill our full potential. With final's week here, many of us will be cramming last minute for a test, writing papers until 3am, and wishing that it was all over so we could just curl up in a ball and slip into a coma for 12 hours. All this stress and anxiety can cause us to doubt ourselves on whether we can really pass a class or whether we can truly achieve our dreams--whatever they may be.

A key to remember in these stressful times is to be sure to love yourself. NO! Even better: love yourself the way Kanye West loves Kanye West. It is no secret that Kanye West loves Kanye. I mean the guy made a song on his new album Life of Pablo called “I love Kanye." The man thinks extremely highly of himself. He even believes that he could be president in 2020. I mean, I love myself, but I know that if I run for president in 2048, I will more than likely get two votes: my mom and I, that’s if I can vote for myself. Kanye’s belief in himself is through the roof on a worldly scale. He feels that he can achieve anything that he sets his mind to, and has a confidence like that is inspirational. So why can’t we love ourselves the way Kanye loves Kanye?

We all have flaws and we all mess up at times, but continue to have the confidence that no matter what you fail on or are going through, that you have the ability to make it out on top. If you got one day until your final and haven’t studied yet, don’t doubt yourself. Put 100% into cramming for that test and get the solid C grade you deserve.

Loving yourself doesn’t have to mean that you love everything about yourself from head to toe, but it is accepting your flaws and being content with them or content with your efforts trying to change them. Whether that is trying to be a better person or working out more, you don’t have to never fail. You just have acknowledged the brief failure and put blood, sweat and tears into the next attempt. So love yourself and have an undeniable belief that you can do whatever you set your mind to and when it’s all said and done you will have seen where your potential can take you. So go ahead and love yourself the way Kanye loves Kanye.

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The Coach That Killed My Passion

An open letter to the coach that made me hate a sport I once loved.
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I fell in love with the game in second grade. I lived for every practice and every game. I lived for the countless hours in the gym or my driveway perfecting every shot, every pass and every move I could think of. Every night after dinner, I would go shoot and would not allow myself to go inside until I hit a hundred shots. I had a desire to play, to get better and to be the best basketball player I could possibly be.

I had many coaches between church leagues, rec leagues, personal coaches, basketball camps, middle school and high school. Most of the coaches I had the opportunity to play for had a passion for the game like I did. They inspired me to never stop working. They would tell me I had a natural ability. I took pride in knowing that I worked hard and I took pride in the compliments that I got from my coaches and other parents. I always looked forward to the drills and, believe it or not, I even looked forward to the running. These coaches had a desire to teach, and I had a desire to learn through every good and bad thing that happened during many seasons. Thank you to the coaches that coached and supported me through the years.

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Along with the good coaches, are a few bad coaches. These are the coaches that focused on favorites instead of the good of the entire team. I had coaches that no matter how hard I worked, it would never be good enough for them. I had coaches that would take insults too far on the court and in the classroom.

I had coaches that killed my passion and love for the game of basketball.

When a passion dies, it is quite possibly the most heartbreaking thing ever. A desire you once had to play every second of the day is gone; it turns into dreading every practice and game. It turns into leaving every game with earphones in so other parents don't talk to you about it. It meant dreading school the next day due to everyone talking about the previous game. My passion was destroyed when a coach looked at me in the eyes and said, "You could go to any other school and start varsity, but you just can't play for me."

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Looking back now at the amount of tears shed after practices and games, I just want to say to this coach: Making me feel bad about myself doesn't make me want to play and work hard for you, whether in the classroom or on the court. Telling me that, "Hard work always pays off" and not keeping that word doesn't make me want to work hard either. I spent every minute of the day focusing on making sure you didn't see the pain that I felt, and all of my energy was put towards that fake smile when I said I was OK with how you treated me. There are not words for the feeling I got when parents of teammates asked why I didn't play more or why I got pulled after one mistake; I simply didn't have an answer. The way you made me feel about myself and my ability to play ball made me hate myself; not only did you make me doubt my ability to play, you turned my teammates against me to where they didn't trust my abilities. I would not wish the pain you caused me on my greatest enemy. I pray that one day, eventually, when all of your players quit coming back that you realize that it isn't all about winning records. It’s about the players. You can have winning records without a good coach if you have a good team, but you won’t have a team if you can't treat players with the respect they deserve.

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Till's Return: The Gorilla Is Back

Liverpool's Darren Till Is Ready To Take Out Everyone

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The #3 ranked fighter in the welterweight division former title challenger Darren Till has recently expressed that he is ready to get into the octagon multiple times this year as he aims to get that top spot in the division. He has said since UFC 228 with the bout between himself and the current UFC Welterweight Champion Tyron Woodley he has essentially reassessed the situation. He is ready to capitalize on the lessons he has learned while showing why he is still the biggest challenger in the 170-pound division.

He has called out all names but he has not hesitated to express his interest in getting that rematch with the champion "The Chosen One" Tyron Woodley because he knows and is confident he has the skill to defeat Tyron. The Gorilla is definitely ready to be the Main Event on the London card in March but there is no clear set opponent yet.

Rumors began to spread in the mix martial arts world that Darren Till would be facing Colby Covington but it was not set in stone. Darren would have much more to win if he took on Colby and dismantled him. He would resolidify himself as the #1 Title challenger as Colby would have a lot more to lose. Colby Covington does not seem to be on the best of terms with the UFC as is so it seems like this would be the most appropriate fight to make since Kamaru Usman vs Tyron Woodley was booked for UFC 235 for the belt.

Darren Till is absolutely ready to get back into action but many would like to see him step into the Middleweight division and show what he can do. He does not want any rest and wants to fight 3 times or more in 2019 as it looks to be a promising year. The Gorilla recently received a call out for the London card by #9 ranked welterweight Jorge Masvidal as they both share the same amount of interest in the past but the fight was never booked.

Another huge fight he has interest in is with the "Style Bender" from the middleweight division, top prospect Israel Adesanya which would be absolute madness and would be a huge sell for the business. But in the meantime, he does believe he will stay at welterweight even though the division is in a very weird place right now. He expressed his dislike for Colby but knows the game Colby Covington is trying to play. A fight between Darren Till and the (Former?) Interim Title holder Colby Covington would definitely put a clear understanding to who the next title challenger could be in the division for Tyron Woodley.

The 26-year-old has 17 wins and 1 loss with 1 draw in his mix martial arts career. The last time we saw the #3 ranked "Gorilla" Darren Till was when he took on Tyron Woodley who become the first person to finish and stop Darren giving him his first loss at UFC 228. It is very exciting to see Darren so hungry and eager to get back in the cage. Hopefully, it will be in the Main Event in London.

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