Love Yourself The Way Kanye Loves Kanye

Love Yourself The Way Kanye Loves Kanye

Have an undeniable belief in yourself.

Everybody lacks confidence. Most of the time we go through life feeling like our potential is anonymous. We desperately want people to see our value and what we have to offer, and, fact of the matter is, most of the time they don’t. We will go through life wondering why we never got that validation--that others believe in us--and that can weigh heavy on our confidence. This lack of belief from others will cause us to lose our own confidence.

We can’t go through life doubting our ability, or we will never be able to fulfill our full potential. With final's week here, many of us will be cramming last minute for a test, writing papers until 3am, and wishing that it was all over so we could just curl up in a ball and slip into a coma for 12 hours. All this stress and anxiety can cause us to doubt ourselves on whether we can really pass a class or whether we can truly achieve our dreams--whatever they may be.

A key to remember in these stressful times is to be sure to love yourself. NO! Even better: love yourself the way Kanye West loves Kanye West. It is no secret that Kanye West loves Kanye. I mean the guy made a song on his new album Life of Pablo called “I love Kanye." The man thinks extremely highly of himself. He even believes that he could be president in 2020. I mean, I love myself, but I know that if I run for president in 2048, I will more than likely get two votes: my mom and I, that’s if I can vote for myself. Kanye’s belief in himself is through the roof on a worldly scale. He feels that he can achieve anything that he sets his mind to, and has a confidence like that is inspirational. So why can’t we love ourselves the way Kanye loves Kanye?

We all have flaws and we all mess up at times, but continue to have the confidence that no matter what you fail on or are going through, that you have the ability to make it out on top. If you got one day until your final and haven’t studied yet, don’t doubt yourself. Put 100% into cramming for that test and get the solid C grade you deserve.

Loving yourself doesn’t have to mean that you love everything about yourself from head to toe, but it is accepting your flaws and being content with them or content with your efforts trying to change them. Whether that is trying to be a better person or working out more, you don’t have to never fail. You just have acknowledged the brief failure and put blood, sweat and tears into the next attempt. So love yourself and have an undeniable belief that you can do whatever you set your mind to and when it’s all said and done you will have seen where your potential can take you. So go ahead and love yourself the way Kanye loves Kanye.

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20 Signs You Were A High School Cheerleader

You got really tired of hearing, "Point your toes."

Cheerleading is something you'll never forget. It takes hard work, dedication, and comes with its ups and downs. Here are some statements that every cheerleader, past and present, know to be true.

1. You always had bobby pins with you.

2. Fear shot through you if you couldn't find your spankees right away and thought you left them at home.

3. You accumulated about 90 new pairs of tennis shoes...

4. ...and about 90 new bows, bags, socks, and warm ups.

5. When you hear certain songs from old cheer dance mixes it either ruins your day or brings back happy memories.

6. And chances are, you still remember every move to those dances.

7. Sometimes you catch yourself standing with your hands on your hips.

8. You know the phrase, "One more time, ladies" all too well.

9. The hospitality rooms were always one of the biggest perks of going to tournaments (at least for me).

10. You got really tired of hearing, "Point your toes."

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11. If you left the gym at half-time to go get something, you better be back by the time the boys run back out.

12. You knew how awkward it could be on the bus rides home after the boys lost.

13. But you also knew how fun it could be if they won.

14. Figuring out line-up was extremely important – especially if one of your members was gone.

15. New uniforms were so exciting; minus the fact that they cost a fortune.

16. You know there was nothing worse than when you called out an offense cheer but halfway through, you had to switch to the defense version because someone turned over the ball.

17. You still know the school fight song by heart and every move that goes with it.

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18. UCA Cheer Camp cheers and chants still haunt you to this day.

19. You know the difference between a clasp and a clap. Yes, they're different.

20. There's always a part of you that will miss cheering and it will always have a place in your heart.

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Miss America 2019: Crowns And Controversy

This year's Miss America pageant was shrouded in a scandal between Miss America 2018, Cara Mund, and the organization's leader, Gretchen Carlson. The pageant saw some interesting, and sometimes, odd moments.


Miss New York, Nia Franklin, was crowned Miss American on Sunday. All eyes were on the 2019 Miss America "competition," amid the chaos that started back in December, when top executives from the board resigned, due to emails about contestants, sent between them. Gretchen Carlson, the former Miss America, and more recently Fox News anchor, took over the chair position earlier this year. After announcing that the pageant would be revamped into "Miss America 2.0," former Miss Americas and state directors started calling for Carlson to resign.

The new Miss America included the throwing away of the swimsuit portion, and instead of calling the event a pageant, it was rebranded into a competition. One of the Miss Americas to call out Carlson and her staff, was Miss America 2017, Cara Mund. Mund wrote a letter last month claiming that Carlson tried to silence her. She also went on to say that she was unhappy with her year as Miss America, and believed that the organization needed a leadership change.

On Sunday, 4.3 million people tuned in to watch the pageant, which is down 19% from the previous year.

Miss America Chairman Gretchen Carlson

The pageant started as usual, with each state candidate introducing their state with a witty fact. Miss Michigan turned some heads when she injected her introduction with a call for action in Flint. She said, "From the state with 84% of the United States' fresh water but none for its residents to drink, I am Miss Michigan, Emily Sioma." The pageant saw some weird moments, including Cara Mund's final walk as Miss America. With a smile from ear to ear, she said "Miss America gave me the platform," she went on to say "And I am just getting started." This final walk seemed a little awkward after Mund wrote her letter calling out the pageant leaders for trying to silence and marginalize her. Seeing her walk across the stage looking happy as ever, did not seem as genuine especially after all of those allegations. Mund plans to attend law school and eventually become the first female governor of North Dakota. This perfectly aligns with the "Miss America 2.0" message that the show was pushing all night. The event kicked off with groups of contestants saying phrases that emphasized empowerment.

Miss Michigan Emily Sioma

The new Miss America, Nia Franklin, believes that the changes made to Miss America are positive and should be embraced. When asked a question about the absence of the swimsuit portion of the competition, she said she was glad that she didn't have to wear a swimsuit in order to win, going further to say women are "more than just that." Franklin is the winner of not only Miss America, but she also receives a $50,000 scholarship. Hopefully, this year will be smoother for the new Miss America, and for the organization overall, but in the meantime, we'll just have to wait and see.

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