As children -- myself in particular, I most looked forward to the idea of growing up. I always imagined what life would be like as an adult. What kind of career would I have? How would I dress? Would my voice change? Would I change?
Up until college, I focused a lot on the idea of growing up until I approached adulting head on. I got my first job my freshman year in college and I realized just how hard the balance of a full time student and full time job was. Life certainly hit me hard and honestly it hasn't gotten easier. Since then , I have very well grown in age as well as spiritually, mentally and physically. With that, I can truly say that I have certainly lived, learned and continue to learn more each day. I work to openly accept criticism while still shying away from help. I try to do everything on my own and I realize that sometimes it is okay to accept help.
Adulting is hard and deep down , we're all just children trying to make our ways into the big world. Here's just a few things I;ve learned so far...
The World Is Scary
As we prepare to graduate, we may have this notion that we will take the world by storm. Of course, confidence will ALWAYS be KEY. Still yet, the world is indeed a scary place and no matter how prepared we think we may be, a little guidance will always deem helpful.
Life Happens Fast
There are those moments when it seems as though one hour may move just a tad bit slower than the last and with that moments can easily pass up by. Either you can grasp life and move with it or easily get swept away. Take time to evaluate big decisions and on some occasions move with spontaneity. Placing thought into our every move will hinder our ability to enjoy the life that presents itself.
Each One , Teach One.
No matter how old we get, we'll all still need a little helping hand. We're never too old for guidance, whether that come from a parent, sibling, friend or mentor. In order to truly live -- we must learn along the way.
Just Breathe
Life can be stressful but we all have to remember to just BREATHE. Take a moment, recollect, regather and regroup. An old friend once said .. "Aint nothing to it but to do it"
Fake It Until You Make It
I mean lets be honest here.. nobody has this thing we call life all figured out. If they say they do -- 9/10, they're lying. We're all figuring out this world together so don't be yourself up about the "What If's" and focus on the now!
Work Hard, Play Harder
You can't just expect things to be handed to you. It is truly a dog eat dog world.. so you certainly have to work for what you want. If you find something interesting, take the initiative to not only do but learn more! Delve into your work -- hard work rarely goes unnoticed. Remember that with balance -- all work and no play leads to a very boring life. So , in moments of leisure really embrace those times. Whether it be a weekend getaway, extended vacation or simple day off. Enjoy those moments to the fullest because sometimes a break is well deserved.
"Ain't Nothing To It, But To Do It"
Don't be afraid to step out on faith. Life is tough, but you are resilient. Time waits for no one -- so if you want it ... Go and get it. The only thing worse than failing is never having tried. You got this ! We got this ! Let's Do It!
