Your name is pretty common and I will not say it to embarrass you, but I just wanted to let you know how thankful I am for you and the one person I had in my past.

We did not get the chance to meet face to face, but you continued to stay in his messages and other social media comments. He posted about me, every week...so you knew about me. Why? Why was it okay for you to think that he could be yours? I wanted to say something between the lines of "Wow, you deserve each other"...but I will not, I will keep it at thank you.

You may think that I dislike you, but I do not. I do not hold grudges especially to a female who felt the need to barge into my relationship. I barely know you, but I do know you saved me from doing something that I could not do myself. You saved me from becoming very serious with a young boy who I thought had our future in the palm of his hands.

Thank you, for letting me know that one simple text, snapchat, or comment from you could change how he felt about me, because I deserve better.

Thank you for showing me the real side of him because no man should be entertained about another female while he has a princess around his arm. Thank you for letting me become closer with my mom since I called her crying the day I found out and also for making me realize that my dad was always right and never settling for less.

Thank you for letting me take the chance of going out on actual dates with guys who appreciate me and letting me become closer with my friends as they knew what was going on.

Thank you for making me really picky about my future with other men. I would love to find someone who is honest, loyal, and trustworthy to grow in the future with.

Thank you for letting me become a better person and focusing on myself before I decide on loving someone else. When you see me strut like my hips move mountains on the streets I will continue to thank you.

Sometimes I look back on the relationship and wish I could have done things differently, but now I do not. I wish you the absolute best in the future since it was his decision to cheat.

When two people are really happy in a relationship, you should leave them alone and let them be happy since God has someone for you in store. You helped set me free from being hurt once again from him.

One thing that I have learned after being cheated on is that not every man will cheat and lie to you, so you must believe them until they give you a reason not to...but keep your heart protected before giving it away to someone else. Absolutely no one deserves to be cheated on, every individual deserves a love that they are trying to give everyone else.

Being single and finding yourself first is much better than being treated as a second option. Cheating is one of the worst things you could ever do to anyone that you become in a relationship with. It destroys the other person's ability to love and trust someone else.

Love,

The girl who is patiently waiting for someone who is loyal