You have to fake a smile. Fake it until you make it. Or should I say Make it until you Fake it. The world has the best way of making things look so fake, putting girls down making them look like they need to be someone they are not. Expecting them to have girl best friends because if they were to ever have a guy best friend It is not right. Or Just simply because girls are hard people to get along with.
Being friends with girls is tough. It is hard to find someone to clique with, who you hope will not judge you for your flaws. And the way you laugh so hard you are really loud.
It is an insecurity thing, because girls have a way of judging and shaming others just by the clothes on our backs, the shoes we wear, and the expensiveness of what we do have or do not have.
But guys are great people to be around. Boys do not care about the stupidity of if you do not wear makeup, because they will always think you look good. Being best friends with a boy, all they want is for you to be happy and to do what is right.
They do not want you hurt, or to see you get hurt. They don't judge you for doing the weird things they do because that's where you fit in. Those boys will always have your backs through the good and the bad days.
Guys are amazing best friends to have. It does not matter what you think, they will tell you how they feel about it. Never take anybody for granted. Having the privilege to have both a girl best friend and guy best friend are a blessing.
Here is a tip: Never forget to do what makes you happy. People are amazing in many different ways. It's just those who you surround yourself with.