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It's Not My Problem That You Find Me Complicated

There are two types of complicated people, which one are you?

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It's Not My Problem That You Find Me Complicated
Sara Radabaugh

Hey there, you probably clicked on this article because you can relate.

To be simply complicated means that you have a lot to offer the world, you just don't always know where to channel your energy. Give yourself a break, you're trying your best to develop into the person you were meant to be. Take a breath, step back and smile about it all. If someone approaches you with their egotistic ways and proclaims that you are complicated, they might not expect the response you give them. There is almost always two key responses that one can expect to hear back from people like us.

If they are a spitfire, odds are you can simply expect to hear, "thank you" with a simple smile to follow. It's a compliment to be a chase these days. So don't be shocked when we sit there and claim it as something potentially good. At the end of the day, if we are complicated and you are attracted to that type, that means that we are doing something right. Don't let our game fool you though. We are human and there are emotions within us waiting to be discovered. We seem mysterious and hard to figure out, but in all reality, we love the hardest.

Then there's the complicated type that will argue with you till they are blue in the face that they aren't in fact complicated. Honey, claim the title and move on with your day because odds are you're complicated and they aren't worth your time. These people truly are complicated because they are in denial about who they are unlike the first type. It's all about owning who you are and shoot if you're complicated that means you have a lot to lose so don't let go.

As much as it sounds like being complicated is viewed as a type of way to have fun, let me ensure you that it is not. People like us are not playing a game. Well, sometimes we are, but it is a sense of protection. Can you blame me for wanting to make sure I am safe? Quit feeling bad about the situation and move on. The more you focus on the idea that I am complicated, the more complicated I will actually become.

You're probably rolling your eyes at this point if you aren't the complicated one reading this. Don't feel bad for me and you really shouldn't feel bad about yourself. I am not out to get you. Please give us simply complicated people some time to process what emotions we are feeling. Yes, I know that this entire article probably sounds complicated. Take a second to just soak in my presence and quit trying to figure me out. I will in due time let you know who I am. That's the beauty of being a complicated person. It's really simple. Let me be myself and time will tell you who I am.

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