I Am A Child Development Major And I'm Pro-Choice

I Am A Child Development Major And I'm Pro-Choice

Yes, I can be both.


I know what you're thinking.

"She must be in it for the wrong reasons."

"She must have not found her real calling in life yet."

"I wouldn't want her as a teacher for my children."

And although these statements are against me and my beliefs, I don't mind that you're thinking them. In fact, I encourage it. As a future educator, I love to teach new concepts. So, sit down and listen up.

I love children. I love the earliest stages of development, when kids are first learning to string words together, act on their feelings, and have their own ideas.

I love when children speak their minds and say everything off the top of their heads.

I love being a Child Development major.

And...I also love being Pro-Choice.

When most people hear the words, "Pro-Choice" they immediately think of a 21st-century liberal who hates children and wishes there were less of them in this world.

But in fact, I'm not like that at all.

I am amazed by all the unique children I have met and continue to meet. I would never take that away from our world.

Just like I would never take away a women's right to her own body.

What a woman decides to do with her body is not her husband's decision, her mother's decision, her doctor's decision, or most definitely not her president's decision. It is HER body and she has the right to choose whatever is best for her.

If a woman knows that she is not mentally, financially, (or just in general) ready to have a child, then let it be. If going through medical procedures prevents a child from having an unacceptable home life, I'm all here for it.

"But what about adoption?"

Oh, you didn't think I was finished, did you?

In 2017, more than 690,000 children spent time in the U.S. foster care system.

In 2017, more than 69,000 children (whose mothers' and fathers' parental rights had been legally terminated) were waiting to be adopted.

Adoption can be a fantastic choice, but in reality, many children end up in the foster care system for years without a permanent home or family.

I don't know about you, but that is much sadder to me than a woman choosing to have control over her own body.

I, like many others, would like to have hope that these children will eventually get adopted into a loving family and have a forever home. But unfortunately, that's just not the reality of the situation.

If you want to be an advocate for the Anti-Choice population, go ahead and start adopting those 690,000 children. Let me know how it works for you.

In the meantime, I will continue to remain Pro-Choice while simultaneously loving and caring for the children I meet every day.

You can dislike my beliefs all you want, but I know one thing is for sure:

Pro-Choice does not mean Anti-children.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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I'm Not The Person I Was In High School And I'm Not Sorry I Changed

I'm sorry, the old me can't come to the phone right now.


If those who knew me in high school hung out with me now, they probably wouldn't recognize me. If my friends from college hung out with me around two years ago, they probably wouldn't recognize me. It's safe to say I've changed... a lot. I definitely find the change to be for the better and I couldn't be happier with the person I've become.

In high school, I would sit at home every night anxiously waiting to leave and go out. Now, honestly, going out is the last thing I want to do any night of the week. While everyone in college is at a fraternity party or at the bars, I prefer to sit at home on the couch, watching Netflix with my boyfriend. That's an ideal night for me and it is exactly the opposite of what I wanted to do a couple of years ago. There's nothing wrong with going out and partying, it's just not what I want to do anymore.

I craved attention in high school. I went to the parties and outings so I could be in Snapchats and photos, just so people would know I was there. I hung out with certain groups of people just so I could say I was "friends" with so-and-so who was so very popular. I wanted to be known and I wanted to be cool.

Now, I couldn't care less. I go to the bars or the parties if I really feel like it or if my friends make me feel bad enough for never going anywhere that I finally decide to show up. It's just not my scene anymore and I no longer worry about missing out.

If you could look back at me during my junior year of high school, you probably would've found me searching for the best-ranked party schools and colleges with the best nearby clubs or bars. Now, you can find me eating snacks on the couch on a Friday night watching the parties through other peoples' Snapchats.

Some may say that I'm boring now, and while I agree that my life is a little less adventurous now than it was in high school, I don't regret the lifestyle changes I've made. I feel happier, I feel like a better person, I feel much more complete. I'm not sorry that I've changed since high school and I'm not sorry that I'm not living the typical "college lifestyle." I don't see anything wrong with that life, it's just not what makes me happy and it's not what I want to do anymore.

I've become a different person since high school and I couldn't be happier about it. I have a lot that's contributed to the change, but my boyfriend definitely was the main factor as he showed me that staying in can be a million times better than a night out. My interests and my social cravings have completely transitioned into that of an 80-year-old grandma, but I don't regret it.

Change doesn't have to be a bad thing. In fact, it can bring a lot more happiness and comfort. The transition from high school to college is drastic, but you can also use it as an opportunity to transition from one lifestyle to another. I don't regret the lifestyle flip I made and I couldn't be less apologetic about it.

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