You meet a guy. You think he's attractive, he's intellectual, and you might actually think he's the one...until you catch him slipping up one time, and that's when you realize he's the worst breed of man to walk the face of the earth. Ladies and Gentlemen let me introduce you to the "Fuckboy."

For some women, you won't recognize him right away because he's so heavily disguised, and he does an amazing job at it. He'll give you the romanticism at first. Sending "Good Morning" texts, checking to see if you've eaten for the day, maybe even down to picking you up from work. All in all, you truly believe that he's the one...because he makes you feel good. Rightfully so, you want to be just as good to him as he has been to you, and as a reward, you have sex with him. Once the climatic point has ended, you're ready to snuggle and fall into a deep slumber with the person you thought would be "bae" and he just exits stage left. Several of your calls go to voicemail, text messages go unanswered or even worse seen as "Read on Wednesday" when you texted him 3 days before that.

So without hesitation:

Dear you sad poor excuse for a "Gentleman,"

Once you started portraying actions that showed me you were serious about being in a relationship with me, I expected more out of you. However, you continued to do the one thing I always asked you not to do.. waste my time. Instead, you continue to drag out this falsified relationship, or lack thereof for the sake of your selfishness.

Now let me ask you a series of questions.

Why waste your time and mine if you knew that it was never going anywhere? What is your logical explanation behind this?(Because I'm sure you have one ... just like you have a story for all of your lies) Was it the cookie jar? or did you really have intentions of sincerely making me your girlfriend? Don't bother lying, because I've already had enough of that going on in my life (i.e. My father) but I mean let's just be real here. I never asked you to be my knight and shining armor. Nor did I ever ask you to be Iyanla and "Come fix my life".

I simply followed your lead. I thought you were going to be the person that was really ready to be in a relationship with me. Settle down with me, and treat me the way I should be treated. However, you left me with anger, resentment, and a lack of compassion for whoever may come my way next.

I never asked you for much, and I never asked you to insanely go out of your way for me. Didn't you notice how I was always genuinely surprised every time you opened the door for me? Or how I was surprised that you called my mom to simply ask her how her day was going? You didn't think I paid attention to the other things you did either right? Take for example, the nights you didn't call me back to let me know that you were home-because you weren't, you were at her house. Or maybe the times "Rizzo from up the block" would call you six times in a row, and then you wouldn't answer & tell me that it was your "Friends cousin" that just wants to know if you could sit in on a game of 2K.

How about, I knew that you never knew a "Rizzo from up the block" because I knew all your friends, your bros, and even your associates.

To be honest, all along, I knew exactly who and what you were before I even met you. Before you even came into my life and changed it for the worst. You taught me that some people aren't even worth the added effort. You were one of those people that didn't deserve to know who I was. I should have kept it at the initial "Hello" and kept it moving. You did the one thing I always begged you not to do...waste my time.

Please do me this one favor, and I'm asking out of the kindness of my heart as well as for the sake of the next young lady to come into your life. Treat her with respect, actually, care about her. Make her feel special, make her feel important. Don't bring her around your mom because she's in your house for one reason and your mom even knows she's there for that. Don't introduce her to your homies as "Shorty" because they already know why she's there too. Legitimately take her out and make her feel like she's the one you will be making your girlfriend. Do everything that you were supposed to do with me and for me with her. Just remember, your loss always has been and forever will be the next mans gain.

Sincerely,

This fine ass loss you will now forever have to take.