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To The Boy Who Broke My Heart: Thank You

Thank you for showing me just how strong I can be.

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To The Boy Who Broke My Heart: Thank You
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Dear_______ ,

It took me a very long time to come to terms with the fact that we were over. I spent hours and hours each day crying over you. Silent tears progressively turned into loud sobs and screams into my pillow. I would spend hours at night thinking about you and us and wondering what went wrong. I didn't think that I would ever get over you. You were the first boy that I really deeply loved and you became a huge part of my life.

I never thought that you would hurt me the way that you did. I shared all my insecurities with you and you did the same with me. We talked about our hopes and fears and dreams for the future. I trusted you, believing that you'd never do me wrong. That was my first mistake, I never should've trusted you.

You took advantage of the love that I had for you. After everything that I did for you and all the time we spent together, you betrayed me. You chose another girl over me and you thought that I would forgive you because of how much I loved you. And, at the time you were right. I was so blinded by the feelings I had for you that I forgave you... How stupid of me?

You made me feel like I wasn't good enough. I started thinking that what you did was my fault. I began to doubt my self-worth. You broke me, and for what? So you could go do what you wanted? To seem cool? There is no good answer for that question because no one deserves to go through what you put me through.

I wish that I could hate you but for some reason, I can't. I just hope that you treat the next girl who gives you her heart, how she deserves to be treated. Don't destroy her self-confidence like you did mine. You taught me so many valuable lessons by hurting me the way that you did and for that I am forever grateful.

So, I want to thank you.

Thank you for allowing me to experience a great love. Thank you for all of the memories and the good times that we had. Thank you for breaking my heart. Thank you for showing me that I deserve so much more. Thank you for showing me just how strong I can be. Thank you for teaching me what kind of relationship I don't want to be in. Most importantly, thank you for letting me find all of the good qualities that I have and allowing me to realize that I am good enough.

Sincerely,

The girl whose heart was once broken by you.

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