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What I Learned During My First Week Of College

The first week of college is terrifying for so many different reasons. Moving away from home, whether just a couple hours or a couple states. Everyone will struggle in their own way. However, if you learn a couple things along the way, it can all be worth it.


Here's a couple things that I learned during my first week of college.

1. If you wear your ID on a lanyard and wear the free shirts you get on the first day, everyone will know you're a freshman.

Of course there's nothing wrong with this, but you will stick out like a sore thumb. The first few days are filled with activities and events held by the college in order to get to know people and make friends so you're not alone in this new, foreign place. Upon leaving these, you will have a variety of new possessions. Now while this is actually pretty awesome (free = amazing), each of these items are freshman badges. Walking around during the following days, there was a flood of students wearing the exact same t-shirt that we were all given on the first day, complete with the lanyard that came along with it. Not only do other freshmen notice, but upper class men do as well.
I know my main goal was to just fit in, blend in with the crowd because I'm the type of person who doesn't like too much extra attention. I didn't want to stand out and be seen as "the clueless freshman". However, I'm not here to tell you that this is the way you have to be. If you like the lanyard and you like the shirts, please wear them. They need someone to.

2. Go to class early because you might get lost.

My second tip I hope is an obvious one. Yes in high school we all had getting up at the last minute possible to get to school two seconds before the bell rings mastered. However, this is a different ballgame. If you go to a bigger university like I do, you'll know that those 10 minutes spent walking to your class is tiring enough, so why would you want to run it. Not only does this save your energy, you won't have to sit in the very back of your 300+ class next to the guy who fell asleep and is drooling everywhere (yes, it happens).

3. You don't have to dress up for the first day. Or at all.

In high school I always planned out my "back to school" outfit days ahead and had it perfectly laid out for when it was time to go. I would try to dress nice, or at least decent, in the beginning of every school year. It would never last, but at least I tried, right?
College is a completely different story. For my first day I started out with shorts and a t-shirt and my hair was in a hideous bun on the top of my head. I bet you can guess how happy I was to walk out of my dorm to see thousands of other students dressed the exact same way. Again, I'm not trying to tell you not to dress up, because if you want to, do it. I just want you to know that there's no pressure to do so. Nobody will judge you for wearing the same shirt that you slept in and the fact that your hair looks like it could have something living in it. The only day I dressed "nice" was yesterday when I wore a dress. However, I deserve no credit because the only reason I wore it was because I didn't want to put pants on.

4. Nobody cares about what you're doing.

This is probably one of my favorite things about college. Everyone is so wrapped up and busy with what they're doing, so they don't have time to worry about anyone else.
My friend and I spent hours exploring and walking around campus and when we ended up needing a break, we sat on the edge of the sidewalk. At first, I figured that everyone walking by would look at us weird and complain under their breath. We all know that that's exactly what would have happened in high school. However, I was surprised when not one person even turned their head. This also went for many other things as well. Walking around campus, not one person looked at you twice and if you wanted to lay down on a bench and take a nap, go ahead because not one person would care.

5. It's okay to miss home.

My final tip would be to make sure you know that it's okay to be homesick. The first night I moved in I was so busy putting things away and tired from moving that as soon as I laid down I was out like a light. However, the next night, as soon as my head hit the pillow it was flooded with thoughts of those that I loved and how they were hours away from me. I'm lucky enough to have a car with me and I don't live too far away, but that doesn't make it any easier because at that very moment it felt like they were in another country. I missed them greatly and a few tears managed to drip onto the pillow. I never said anything to my roommate or other girls on my floor about it because I didn't want them to think I was a baby, that I was weak. But a few days later one girl voiced that she missed her family, and one after another, girls started to admit that they did too.
It was stupid for me to try and act like I didn't. If you think about it, if you go to college and you don't miss home, then something is wrong.

While those aren't the only things I've learned and as the days pass by there's something new every single day. However, those are the ones that stuck out to me the most. But whatever it may be, just remember that you are not alone and that there are at least 100 people that are going through the exact same thing as you.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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7 Things We Should be Talking About Instead of James Charles

Not to sound like Shane Dawson, but did the government put them up to this publicity stunt?


If you're an avid YouTube watcher such as myself, I'm sure you're fully aware of the drama between James Charles and Tati. If you're not, it's really okay, and I'm super impressed with your ability to NOT become wrapped up in trending drama and gossip. Unfortunately, this argument that is BLOWING UP social media could not have come at a more inconvenient time. Young people are so distracted by this sugar fluff honey bear scandal that they aren't talking about real news that actually matters. I mean think about it, what other trending topic surfaced at the same time as this one? That's right-ABORTION! Our nation's most controversial topic that literally has to do with life and death is being overpowered by a conversation about sponsorships and apology videos. I may have been watching to many of Shane Dawson's conspiracy theories lately, but doesn't it seem like the populace should be talking about more pressing topics? Is this all a publicity stunt to divert our attention away from subjects that matter-such as the laws that literally weave the fabric of our nation? Not to be dramatic or anything, but I can think of 7 things off the top of my head that I'd rather hear people talk about than James Charles.

1. The abortion bills

I'm not one to encourage political arguments, but I'd much rather consider a well-thought out conversation about things that are changing our nation's history and possibly reversing Supreme Court decisions than millionaires with makeup. Women are being robbed of a life-altering choice and the nation is more worried about the "tea" about James and Tati? I don't think so.

2. India's water crisis

Because of drought and serious climate change, villages in Delhi, India don't see water for 10 days at a time. They need it for drinking, bathing, cooking, cleaning, and washing, so the few jugs they can fill up when a water truck comes has to be rationed over more than a week. Can you imagine using only one jug of water for 10 days? James Charles can save his ass and use his fortune to donate some water to India.

3. Climate change, and people not believing in it

More than one-eighth of ALL of Earth's species are at risk of extinction. Over a million animals, plants, corals, and insects are on that list. President Trump and his administration are not prioritzing the environment or the obvious effects of climate change-such as the California wildfires which he claimed started because the mountains "just need more raking and cleaning". Let's talk about ways we can be more sustainable in our everyday energy use instead of using technology and our own energy to talk shit online!

4. Bill Nye's inspiring comeback

If Bill Nye has to come so far out of retirement from the point we thought he was dead just to tell us we're f*cking up our planet, we must really be f*cking up our planet.

5. An extinct species of bird came back from the dead

Okay so we're talking about makeup moguls more than a literal LIVING ZOMBIE? The white-throated rail quite literally evolved and re-populated the island it once left behind. Science is crazy.

6. Taiwan was the first country in Asia to legalize same-sex marriage

We love a good leader. Especially a ballsy one who gives people the rights they deserve despite an entire, large continent around them disagreeing.

7. Anything all

Talk to me about how paper is made or how our bodies break down enzymes or some shit. Let's watch paint dry and listen to classical music. All of these options bode a better result for our mental health as well as our society.

It infuriated me that shootings in schools close to home and terrorist attacks all across the world are more expected to pop up in the news than a teenage millionaire losing fans due to inappropriate behavior. What we expect from our media is incredibly reflective of our society, and I'm sad to say it's pretty embarrassing that the masses, including myself, know more about James Charles's career than the 2020 election or the explosions that injured tourists in Egypt.

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